Thanks so much to everyone praying for Lynn and John after checking email this is the latest update from Lynn.
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Lynn
All good news today. I did a generalized post for the Prayer Request forum, because I finally have time to put up the Christmas tree! lol
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Good News Update on John
They scared me for a bit. They moved him. But they moved him into the luxury suite. Well, technically not, but his last room was so small I had to get up every time they were changing meds or checking machines, because my knees were in the way when I sat in the chair. This room? He has a window! There's enough room to put a cot. (And don't think I'm not considering that either. lol) I pulled up the chair closer to his bed and didn't have to move when the nurse was futzing with his gizmos. (Lots of gizmos, but about one-third of what he used to have.)
So the nurse said this was where patients who will be spending some time with them stay. He whispered that like John might not want to hear it. Yeesh! My biggest fear in the last two weeks has been he won't spend much time there. "Some time" means they expect him to have time! That's a good thing!
AND, if that's not enough they're weaning him off a whole bunch of stuff. One machine still helps his heart out. It doesn't have to. His white blood count has gone down to 32. (Yesterday 38.5. Day before, he reached up to 46. 40 is danger zone. Suddenly that 25.1 I worried about last week does look good. It's supposed to be around 8-10, just to get some idea what's good.) So they're weaning him off more meds. And, the biggy -- that which makes him most uncomfortable and that which stops us from talking -- the ventilator! They're going to try taking that out in the next 24 hours! Woot woot!!!
Granted, he still has the open-heart surgery coming, but a breather (literally) would be nice. Normal white blood count would be nice. Finding out what he wants would be very nice!
Several things have also happened in the last 48 hours. I was turned onto a new song. (Eternally grateful, Candance!)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YNqo4Un2uZI It wasn't well the first time I heard it, but I know God wanted it to be so I kept listening. Now it is. To the point that was my first thought when I woke up this morning. (Two weeks ago it was JOHN! with a panic. Didn't even get that moment so many talk about between asleep and awake to forget.) "Through it all my eyes are on you."
I park under one hospital, walk out of that one to go across the street to John's hospital. I have a smoke in between. There's only this one small spot where smokers can some, in front of a third hospital (CHOP -- Children's Hospital of Philadelphia -- famous place.) It has a raised garden with pansies that are still blooming and some kind of ground cover under small trees. The ground cover is somewhat blah, but once a year it has small purple flowers in it. That time of year was two months ago. Yesterday, I took a plate of raspberry brownies for John's nurses. (Raspberry brownies -- the ultimate comfort food for me. The two best taste in the world -- chocolate and raspberries. In case you don't know the story, I have decided God created raspberries specifically because he knew I'd come along eventually and would truly appreciate that invention more than most do, so raspberries and chocolate. Can't get better than that, and I really want the nurses to know how much I appreciate their efforts.) Well, I saw something small and purple in that ground cover yesterday. (BTW, purple! My favorite color. lol) Nah! It flowers two months ago, so couldn't be. That and I am right smack in the middle of a large city, so someone might steal the brownies if I went to look. And my hands shake. (I finally figured out what that is. It's called "effective tremors." Something people get sometimes in their 40's-60's. It is no big deal -- except I can't take pictures of my garden anymore -- unless it gets really bad. It sounds like it doesn’t get that worse for most. Worse yet, it gets worse with stress, so it's been annoying lately, especially since my signature became required by the hospital and they probably think I got that course doctors take to write illegibly. lol Hey, I went to Catholic school for my first 4.5 grades, so "good penmanship" was stressed.) So I was curious what that small purple thing was, but didn't look.
Today I looked. It is one of those flowers. One tiny, quiet tenuous flower unaware it's past its prime in the middle of nothing worth looking at in a huge city hiding in a sea of humanity bustling back and forth through hospitals. Many worried about a loved one. Others taking care of those loved ones. Others students. So busy no one noticed. God said, "Yes. I noticed. I did that. I do that for all of mine -- including John and including you."
John is more awake, looks like he's uncomfortable, and hurts. I told him it's okay because this is better. I asked him if he knew how long he'd been in the hospital. He shook his head no. I told him that at that exact moment two weeks ago I was being annoying and gabby as I took him to the ER. (Still can't believe I was trying to be calm and cautious so my driving didn't scare him, all the time he's in the middle of a massive heart attack. Good thing. Had I known that -- my driving would have been terrible.)
I asked him the two questions I needed to ask.
"Are you at peace with God through this? Not saying this is the end, it's not, but… all this! A lot to take in." He shook his head No. I told him it took me two weeks to get there and he slept through most of it, so that's okay.
(And then the nurse had to check on something, so there was a pause.)
Then I asked him, "Do you trust he is still the good shepherd? He is leading us where it is good for us to go." He nodded and all his angst and twitching calmed for a few minutes.
I think he's going to make it. Am I reading the signs right? Or is this just Lynn the Optimist seeing out of my lavender glasses still? (Let me keep my glasses on for a while. lol)