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LaceyM

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Lacey, I am not going to say this is right or wrong as many here have but what I will do is pray that you will grow and mature in the Lord and the Holy Spirit will correct you. May God Bless You and keep you safe as I don't want anything to happen to you.
THANK YOU SO MUCH for this positivity & prayer, have an amazing night. You are very appreciated .
 
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LaceyM

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Hey, you might even get yourself a baby. Such fun.
This is EXTREMELY offensive & disgusting for a grown man to be telling me, I'll pray for you and your mind .
 
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LaceyM

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I think someone's lacking a daddy, if this is the case, you aren't going to get back at your dad for what you're doing...it'll will only be punishing yourself...God is your Father LaceyM...and he disciplines those he loves...you will see how much he loves you...soon...God bless
this is EXTREMELY offensive and gross. I HAVE A FATHER, or "daddy" as you say. I am in no way trying to replace him or get him back because he is not away from me to begin with, please check how you speak to a young woman.
 
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hmmm, ok then, as a minor and your Dad being legally liable for trouble you may get into... does your Dad approve of what you're doing??? and how is the man who is no good for you going to be speaking to you? You gonna pray for him too?
 
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Sparky

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Lacey, don't do this to yourself. There are far better ways to have fun without it being illegal and/or damaging to your future. Get together with some of your friends and go see a movie! Or go bowling! Or go to an arcade! Drugs, alcohol, and trespassing aren't necessary for a fun night. That one "fun night" could ruin your life.
 
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VioletReigns

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I hope you find out before it's too late.

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THANK YOU for the prayer, have an amazing night . I appreciate you .
THANK YOU SO MUCH for this positivity & prayer, have an amazing night. You are very appreciated .
You're welcome.

I'm wondering if you appreciated it because it seemed nice and didn't explicitly call you out, or if you appreciated it because you agree with the prayers and took them to heart. I hope you read what we said and really took it to heart. I hope that you appreciate the others who have commented here too. I don't think I've said anything vastly different than what they said, just started with "Father" and ended with "Amen". We're all trying to help, including them and I think they have good insights for you. Some are coming from experience and speak out of concern. Don't discount their words because they weren't packaged in a pretty prayer.

I hope you have an amazing night as well, while doing something that doesn't place you in a dangerous and sinful situation. That's my prayer.

Said in love.
 
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LaceyM

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I am judging her and I am righteously judging her! I dont adhere to the worlds definition of judging. A person who has supposedly surrendered to Christ does not go out (sneak out) (behind her parents back) and seek happiness by the way of sinning against God. And Then she has the audacity to ask us to pray for her to get away with it? SMH>>>>>>>>>>>>

Does she love the Lord with all her mind, her heart, and all her strength? Or not?
Is it NOT up to you to judge, AT ALL ..whether you think it's justified or not, leave it up to God. All you had to do was simply pray for me or leave and not pray for me. you seem so angry, let go & let God my love & watch how you speak to a young woman .
 
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You really want Gods judgement? I'm a Christian who knows I should be judged.....and even I don't want Gods judgement ...oh I'm getting out of this one :(
 
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LaceyM

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hmmm, ok then, as a minor and your Dad being legally liable for trouble you may get into... does your Dad approve of what you're doing??? and how is the man who is no good for you going to be speaking to you? You gonna pray for him too?
He speaks to me with respect and love & I reply back gracefully and the same . You seem so angry, let go & let God. Only he can judge so simply pray for me or leave and don't, I am a young lady you don't treat me as anything other than that .
 
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Then you should treat yourself as a young lady...if you expect others to...smoking and drinking underage with men who you admit are no good for you...isn't exactly.........LADY LIKE...if you don't mind me saying :)
 
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He speaks to me with respect and love & I reply back gracefully and the same . You seem so angry, let go & let God. Only he can judge so simply pray for me or leave and don't, I am a young lady you don't treat me as anything other than that .
Let go and let God? Is that some of your christianese? Are you "letting God"? Or are you letting satan?
 
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Is it NOT up to you to judge, AT ALL ..whether you think it's justified or not, leave it up to God. All you had to do was simply pray for me or leave and not pray for me. you seem so angry, let go & let God my love & watch how you speak to a young woman .
I dont take advice from children . Read Titus 2:4.
 
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I hope you find out before it's too late.

[video=youtube;J247M6Oz-Jw]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J247M6Oz-Jw[/video]
Keith Green is one of my favs! Oh what a wonderful mighty man who served Christ to his full potential! Thank you for posting this sister! Blessings.....
 
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It's almost time for you to sneak out Lacey...do you want us to be quiet so you can make a clean getaway?
 

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Let me tell you a story the Pastor told us at church....He started out as it was kind of embarrassing and he could have gotten into a lot of trouble but didn't as he really was an innocent party in this.

He was having a service done I forget if it was a car repair or what exactly, but the man doing it was really nice and the Pastor was going to Costa Rica and this man asked him if he would bring him back this special coffee that he could only get down there at a certain place and he wanted two 5 pound bags of coffee... So the Pastor said sure I will pick up your coffee when I go...

So the trip came up and the Pastor went and got the coffee and had to come through customs with it and the officer looked at him and the coffee and let him through....He got back home and went to give this man the coffee but he had died while the Pastor was on the trip... So now the Pastor has 2 5 pound bags of coffee that he does not drink.... but he kept them and six years went by....

A friend of his mentioned he was going on a trip to visit his parents and said something about how they loved coffee and the Pastor said well I have these 2 bags of coffee I will give for them since I don't drink it.... Well the friend got started on his trip and noticed that one of the bags was starting to open and when he looked inside the bag was full of drugs.... and this guy could get in lots of trouble so he ended up flushing it down the toilet and let the Pastor know what had been in the bags....

The Pastor was so embarrassed not knowing about this and having been used as a mule to carry drugs across the border.....I believe that God punished that man for using the Pastor that way when he had no idea what criminal acts this man was asking him to do.....Sometimes we don't think about what we are doing and the ultimate consequences that go along with our actions.

I would hate to hear of any harm that had come to you when you already know what you are doing is wrong....
I just ask that you think really long and hard about what you are trying to do....What if it were your last night?
 
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Is it NOT up to you to judge, AT ALL ..whether you think it's justified or not, leave it up to God. All you had to do was simply pray for me or leave and not pray for me. you seem so angry, let go & let God my love & watch how you speak to a young woman .
Is this your brain on drugs?
 
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TheBlackDove

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This is EXTREMELY offensive & disgusting for a grown man to be telling me, I'll pray for you and your mind .
you tend to drink with 18 year old buys and you don't think this will happened sorry sister but your dreaming you will very much sin at this party even if you don't want to if you like to party DO IT ALL and don't be a Christian GOD hates the lukewarm more than a non Christian.


and P.S I will tell you this IT IS WRONG TO DRINK the way I think you will



this makes me more sad than levi's thread.


I will pray that you DON't have to post a thread trying to figer out what to do with an un born baby
 

Pres19

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Is this your brain on drugs?
There is no need for that.
Regardless of how you feel about what she says you shouldn't be so rude to a 16 year old who at least tried to reach out for help. Maybe she didn't reach out for they right thing but she did reach out. There is hope for her. But not if she keeps getting comments like this.
 
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TheBlackDove

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Is it NOT up to you to judge, AT ALL ..whether you think it's justified or not, leave it up to God. All you had to do was simply pray for me or leave and not pray for me. you seem so angry, let go & let God my love & watch how you speak to a young woman .
well let a young man speak to you if you won't hear them sister this is wrong plz plz don't do this )': this could end very badly
PLZ hear my plead to you read the bible I am 16 and have never gone to a part like that and never gone to one without my mother and father plz pray about this see what the bible says


and P.S she is right to juge we are called to it says so in the bible look for yourself