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I agree 100%
It's comments like that which causes people to stop reaching out and trying to get help.
That comment isn't going to help this young girl.
I was asking in seriousness!
You dont know that!
 

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Wait... I'm confused with your op. What do you want prayer for? You have decided to break the law and you're asking that we pray you don't get caught? Am I understanding this correctly? Because if that's what you're asking, we would all be guilty of breaking the law as well. Any adult who had knowledge of an underage person drinking alcohol is responsible to put a stop to it or at least report it to the police.

To ask a public forum to pray you get away with breaking the law is absolutely immature. Anyway, whether anyone prays for you or not, your headstrong, careless behavior is going to have you locked up in a juvenile center within a short time.
I believe in a way she is reaching out for help and understanding. But she doesn't even realize it.
She knows what she is doing is wrong but I believe in her heart she needs help understanding why its wrong.
This is just my opinion. I could be wrong but that's just the feeling I'm getting.
 
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Dear Father

Please help Lacy to not be able to go to this party give her a change of heart. Help the man to decide it is not a good idea. Help her to see that this is not the thing to do. If she drinks please make her sick so that she will never want to touch a drink again. Help her to keep her wits about her and for this man not to try and take advantage of her. Father in spite of her willfulness please send angels to protect her from harm and make her want to come home if she does sneak out. I pray that she will not be able to go in the first place for her own safety.

Help her to really find You and want to learn to trust and have faith in you and give her life and heart completely to you that she would have a saving and very close relationship with You Father....Help her I pray in Jesus Name Amen.
 

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I was asking in seriousness!
You dont know that!
If someone asked me that I wouldn't even come back to the post. It's hard enough with what some of us have already said but to flat out ask that is unnecessary.
 
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I left God when I was 17. Graduated high school, joined the military, got booted out and started living for the world. Had 5 felony convictions before I was 21 and did 2 stints in prison. Thought the world was great. 32 years later, my body is beat up and I am crying out for God to help me get back into His fold. I only hope and pray that if you truly are a Christian that you will stay in God's will and stay home tonight. My first night of "fun" turned into 32 years of grief.
 
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please give a quick prayer for me, I'm sneaking out tonight with a man I know is no good for me but I just really am lonely and need to get out of this house and have some fun. Nervous about the cops because there's drinking and smoking going on at the abandoned mansion party we are going to, also I'm sixteen and most of the people going are 18 so there's that pressure on me again to not get caught since I still have to worry about my parents . Thanks so much, wish me luck . xo
Watch your drinks and stay with the crowd!

What a shock that would be for your dad and mom! Torment, distresses and pains for sure!

As it is written: If you love me, you will keep my commandments.
 

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I left God when I was 17. Graduated high school, joined the military, got booted out and started living for the world. Had 5 felony convictions before I was 21 and did 2 stints in prison. Thought the world was great. 32 years later, my body is beat up and I am crying out for God to help me get back into His fold. I only hope and pray that if you truly are a Christian that you will stay in God's will and stay home tonight. My first night of "fun" turned into 32 years of grief.
I'm so sorry to hear that. I'll be praying for you.
 
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Agreed!
Although I think when it comes to 13-16 year olds we really need to watch how we word things and watch how we come across. Not saying to sugarcoat anything but just try to keep in mind most people that age are raised to know God is real but haven't really opened the bibles for themselves. (No I'm not say all of them)
Some of them may not even know what it really means to be a Christian.
I'm 20 and still learning.
Well, I was talking about us older people "listening" to a teen, but you're right in what you said.
 
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If someone asked me that I wouldn't even come back to the post. It's hard enough with what some of us have already said but to flat out ask that is unnecessary.
Thats your opinion. I dont think asking her if she is on drugs is unnecessary! It could explain a lot of things. Think!! Are you done?
 
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I believe in a way she is reaching out for help and understanding. But she doesn't even realize it.
She knows what she is doing is wrong but I believe in her heart she needs help understanding why its wrong.
This is just my opinion. I could be wrong but that's just the feeling I'm getting.
I believe you have a heart of compassion, my dear. But if she were my daughter and I was unaware of her plans to risk her life, I would hope to God caring people would try to talk some sense into her and snatch her away from such danger. All you hear about on the news anymore is assault, rape, murder, drunk driving deaths, teenage age pregnancies, abortion. There can no good come out of this young girl attending a party where there is drinking and partying. There's no reason to think nothing bad will happen if she goes. My only prayer would be that she turns to the Lord and repents of her decision to go.
 
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Thank you and God bless all. Time to read Bible.
 

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Thats your opinion. I dont think asking her if she is on drugs is unnecessary! It could explain a lot of things. Think!! Are you done?
Perhaps unnecessary isn't the word. How about rude?
Remember she is 16 she is young. She isn't going to take comments like that in a good way. It's just going to hurt her and upset her.even if you don't agree with that it will not help her by saying things like that.
 

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I believe you have a heart of compassion, my dear. But if she were my daughter and I was unaware of her plans to risk her life, I would hope to God caring people would try to talk some sense into her and snatch her away from such danger. All you hear about on the news anymore is assault, rape, murder, drunk driving deaths, teenage age pregnancies, abortion. There can no good come out of this young girl attending a party where there is drinking and partying. There's no reason to think nothing bad will happen if she goes. My only prayer would be that she turns to the Lord and repents of her decision to go.
I agree that no good can come from this party.
I was just stating I think in a way she is reaching out for help. I hope she gets it. I really do.
 
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To everyone commenting rude and sarcastic things about me getting pregnant, being on drugs, or just talking down to me because of my age I'll pray for you to grow some compassion and understanding of us young teens. We do not all think the same way and this is fine but please stop the negativity. If you don't have a 16 year old girl of your own ill tell you right now I'm young and emotional and sometimes make mistakes and this is okay, I have to learn but I feel completely shocked and upset by the joking and disrespectful comments on here, some of the stuff being said is straight bullying. On a positive note THANK YOU for the people who are simply praying for my well being and giving positive advise and sharing their own experiences without the harsh criticism. I hope all of you have a wonderful night and maybe learned a little something about treating a young girl (aka. Treat her with respect like a princess and know she is learning but still fragile and emotional and it is not okay to bully or talk down to her) I'm done commenting on this if you want to speak privately then do that.
 
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Thats your opinion. I dont think asking her if she is on drugs is unnecessary! It could explain a lot of things. Think!! Are you done?

Please please sisterdon't start this leave it alone if you feel wronged fix this in P.M this is about the OP who is possible in danger why you two are bigering about this is beond me.

Atlease be the more muture one in this plz
 
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Perhaps unnecessary isn't the word. How about rude?
Remember she is 16 she is young. She isn't going to take comments like that in a good way. It's just going to hurt her and upset her.even if you don't agree with that it will not help her by saying things like that.
Again,your opinion and a 20 yr old opinion at that..........Perhaps you yourself are on drugs if you think its a rude question!
 
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To everyone commenting rude and sarcastic things about me getting pregnant, being on drugs, or just talking down to me because of my age I'll pray for you to grow some compassion and understanding of us young teens. We do not all think the same way and this is fine but please stop the negativity. If you don't have a 16 year old girl of your own ill tell you right now I'm young and emotional and sometimes make mistakes and this is okay, I have to leave but I feel completely shocked and upset by the joking and disrespectful comments on here, some of the stuff being said is straight bullying. On a positive note THANK YOU for the people who are simply praying for my well being and giving positive advise and sharing their own experiences without the harsh criticism. I hope all of you have a wonderful night and maybe learned a little something about treating a young girl (aka. Treat her with respect like a princess and know she is learning but still fragile and emotional and it is not okay to bully or talk down to her) I'm done commenting on this if you want to speak privately then do that.
stop using your age as asin pillow to alow you to do this and just say I don't care what you peop-le say I am going to have fun and go to this party and we are all thinking of your wellbeing and STOP thinking of yourself as so in need of respect just cuz you a 16 your old girl WE ARE ALL THE SAME and I really hope you don't do this