That's beside the point. A lot of Calvinists point that God does not react to something beyond himself. Yet, he does. Fallen or saved, this still shows God looking at us and reacting. A saved man may be coming from a Godly state, but he is using that state to speak to God. A saved man is still there. God reacted.
Otherwise you'd have to say God is talking to himself.
When Abraham asked God... Abraham was speaking from himself. He spoke from his lack of understanding. He had doubts about how God was about to act. This lack of knowledge and understanding is not a God attribute. It's a human attribute. God reacted to Abraham.
As for the fallen, God reacting to the fallen has happened a few times as far I remember. God reacting to the fallen is enough to say God can react to the fallen.
[SUP]9 [/SUP]But the Lord God called to the man, “Where are you?” [SUP]10 [/SUP]He
(Fallen man) answered, “I heard you in the garden, and I was afraid because I was naked; so I hid.”
[SUP]11 [/SUP]And he
(God reacting) said, “Who told you that you were naked? Have you eaten from the tree that I commanded you not to eat from?”
[SUP]12 [/SUP]The man said, “The woman you put here with me—she gave me some fruit from the tree, and I ate it.”
[SUP]13 [/SUP]Then the Lord God said to the woman, “What is this you have done?”
The woman said, “The serpent deceived me, and I ate.”
^ Parenthesis added for better understanding.
The serpent is also fallen. The serpent did something. God reacted by cursing the serpent.
[SUP]14 [/SUP]So the Lord God
(God reacting) said to the serpent, “
Because you have done this,
“Cursed are you above all livestock
and all wild animals!
You will crawl on your belly
and you will eat dust
all the days of your life.
[SUP]15 [/SUP]And I will put enmity
between you and the woman,
and between your offspring[SUP][
a][/SUP] and hers;
he will crush[SUP][
b][/SUP] your head,
and you will strike his heel.”
I suspect another situation like this is when Jesus was in front of the governor, Jesus responded, reacted. I'm not sure if he was a fallen man or not, but the above examples are more clear.
11 Meanwhile Jesus stood before the governor
(I'd think he is a fallen man), who questioned Him: “Are You the King of the Jews?” “You have said so,” Jesus answered.
(God reacted
"IOW, they don't first seek Him and then He seeks them in return"
^ If that's what Calvinists mean by react, it be nice if they just said that instead of using a word that does not mean that. Reaction is a simple word. Either way, God does react, both to the fallen and the saved as shown above.