I don't really get why there are some single people who wanna stop being single so bad! hahaha! God has His plans for us and maybe we just need to be focusing on His will and not ours. because I think that the one that God has for is will be worth the wait!
! What are your thoughts? lol!
Personally i have been single all my life, and I fully understand the concept and meaning behind the "wait for God" response that many people have. With that being said, I am focusing on his will by being
open to NOT being single (man will cling to his wife and the two will become one) it was always his intent for people not to be alone... and also to give you the desires of your heart.
I guess another way of thinking about it is that in this world filled with self centeredness and hatred, its astronomically easier to become complacent and happy thinking only of yourself and retaining your singularity versus being open to the idea of sharing your life with another fully and completely.
I think this is why many non believers tend not to get married - so when they decide to switch into "me mode" its way easier; there was never a true commitment to the other person to begin with, it was all completely only for their own gratification.
I agree we should all wait for God to give us the person he has created for us, I just dont think we should wait for him to show up in person - take us by the hand - and say hey you... this is so and so... go be fruitful. IMO There isn't anything wrong in following his guidance to lead you where you need to be and who you need to be with, as long as you remember to do your part. Seek HIM first in all you do and he will make straight your path.
Don't sit on your single mat and say woe with me I'll stay here till something changes, pick it up and walk.
Well, thats how I tend to view it anyways... I'm waiting and listening to what he tells me to do. He might say be still or go join that cooking class knowing that the one I wait for is there too. If you dont join the cooking class you won't meet the person (just and example)
Does that make sense?