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Hey everybody, I've been having such a struggle in my life lately... My boyfriend is Cody, we talked and hung out for a few months before dating, our best friend Devin kind of "pushed" us together. Four days after Cody and I decided to be in a relationship, our best friend Devy was in a car accident and passed away.. It was such a struggle for the both of us, the hardest time of our lives (we are 17 and 18). Losing our best friend brought us closer, we were there for each other. But a few months back I realized Cody has a compulsive lying problem. We've been through countless arguments, and each time he tells me that this time he will change. I have noticed him making progress.. in one situation he told me half of the truth, but I think before he would not have told me at all so I took that to mean he really is trying. Just tonight I found out that he stole a shirt of mine, he has the same one but lost his, and I know it is mine because I took the sides in (I'm so tiny I never fit t-shirts). He cut the sleeves and sides out but at the very bottom of the shirt you can still see where I stitched. I asked him about it and he denied that it was mine and gave me a story that just does not make sense. I always pray for him, I go to church regularly and always ask him to come, he says he will one day. I don't know if I am wasting my time with him? How do I know if all of this is wrong? Does God want me in a relationship with a compulsive liar? any advice would be greatly appreciated