Answers are in the Word of God. This is one thing I have learned. If someone truly wants a change in their life they must give all of themselves to the Lord.
Matthew 19:16-22New Living Translation (NLT)
The Rich Man
16 Someone came to Jesus with this question: “Teacher,[a] what good deed must I do to have eternal life?”
17 “Why ask me about what is good?” Jesus replied. “There is only One who is good. But to answer your question—if you want to receive eternal life, keep[b] the commandments.”
18 “Which ones?” the man asked.
And Jesus replied: “‘You must not murder. You must not commit adultery. You must not steal. You must not testify falsely. 19 Honor your father and mother. Love your neighbor as yourself.’[c]”
20 “I’ve obeyed all these commandments,” the young man replied. “What else must I do?”
21 Jesus told him, “If you want to be perfect, go and sell all your possessions and give the money to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven. Then come, follow me.”
22 But when the young man heard this, he went away sad, for he had many possessions.
How much is your friend willing to give to follow Christ? Is he willing to give up his homosexuality? There are so many Christians who want to follow Jesus but they are unwilling to give up their possessions (worldly things). Jesus doesn't just want part of us, He wants all of us. He just doesn't want us on Sunday's, He wants us everyday.
Matthew 19:16-22New Living Translation (NLT)
The Rich Man
16 Someone came to Jesus with this question: “Teacher,[a] what good deed must I do to have eternal life?”
17 “Why ask me about what is good?” Jesus replied. “There is only One who is good. But to answer your question—if you want to receive eternal life, keep[b] the commandments.”
18 “Which ones?” the man asked.
And Jesus replied: “‘You must not murder. You must not commit adultery. You must not steal. You must not testify falsely. 19 Honor your father and mother. Love your neighbor as yourself.’[c]”
20 “I’ve obeyed all these commandments,” the young man replied. “What else must I do?”
21 Jesus told him, “If you want to be perfect, go and sell all your possessions and give the money to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven. Then come, follow me.”
22 But when the young man heard this, he went away sad, for he had many possessions.
How much is your friend willing to give to follow Christ? Is he willing to give up his homosexuality? There are so many Christians who want to follow Jesus but they are unwilling to give up their possessions (worldly things). Jesus doesn't just want part of us, He wants all of us. He just doesn't want us on Sunday's, He wants us everyday.