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Hi all, have a question regarding compassion.
I'm feeling a little irate today. After being alone for a little bit I feel better, but I could use some advice on my situation.
I'm feeling as though I'm bending over backwards for everyone, and getting nothing in return.
Both me and my husband have family staying with us for an undetermined period of time. Both of us work all day, and the family members don't do anything. I come home on multiple occasions to a messy house, and dishes piled up in the sink. At night, when I'm going to her, they stay up late and make noise.
To add to this, the family members are sick, and have passed it on to my husband. Now he's sick (and needy) on top of them being sick. I am feeling frustrated, because I've had bad sleep since they have arrived, I do all the cleaning, and I'm just feeling worn out and not appreciated.
I feel like I need to show more compassion instead of anger, but I'm feeling so worn out and fed up.
What can I do?
I'm feeling a little irate today. After being alone for a little bit I feel better, but I could use some advice on my situation.
I'm feeling as though I'm bending over backwards for everyone, and getting nothing in return.
Both me and my husband have family staying with us for an undetermined period of time. Both of us work all day, and the family members don't do anything. I come home on multiple occasions to a messy house, and dishes piled up in the sink. At night, when I'm going to her, they stay up late and make noise.
To add to this, the family members are sick, and have passed it on to my husband. Now he's sick (and needy) on top of them being sick. I am feeling frustrated, because I've had bad sleep since they have arrived, I do all the cleaning, and I'm just feeling worn out and not appreciated.
I feel like I need to show more compassion instead of anger, but I'm feeling so worn out and fed up.
What can I do?