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My son is 22 and lives in an apartment I pay for. I also help pay his tuition. His father is no longer around, so he hasn't been disciplined in years. But lately, he's been failing classes in college, drinking, smoking, not going to church, lying to me, spending all his time playing games and using the internet, and I suspect he may be fooling around with his gay roommate. I'm paying for his apartment, so he's still basically still living under my roof, but I'm not able to give him the discipline I think he needs to straighten him out and he's been disrespectful and rude to me. If his father were still around, he would whip him with his belt until he learned some respect and I think he'd be much better off. I think he would benefit from a good, hard whipping, but there's nobody in his life that can give it to him. I'm not strong enough myself and I don't know anyone else around here that would be willing to deliver a much needed, old-fashioned spanking. What should I do? Should he even still be spanked at this age? He's acting like a child, so I feel like he should be treated like one. Thank you!