when i was going through my hardest loneliest time in my life, I drank every word of the evanesance fallen album, it totally related to every deep pain I was feeling, I was thankful the words had Christ in them. the album expresses word of deep loss, despair, blame. Its was good for me at the time for where I was at, I looked for music that understood pain with indecribable words to people who dont know how to express themselves, Linkin park was the same,I was thankful for those bands, but over time i learnt Christ wants us to grow, grow past the pain, the painful words these bands express and get into praise, thankfulness selflesness and loving others, With Praise and Glory to Him with music that doesnt appeal to the flesh, Praise The Lord