To the OP, maybe you can ask these people and your church, what it is willing to do to
support you, in light of the following verses.
James 1:25-27 NKJV
[25] But he who looks into the perfect law of liberty and continues in it, and is
not a forgetful hearer but a doer of the work, this one will be blessed in what
he does. [26] If anyone among you thinks he is religious, and does not bridle
his tongue but deceives his own heart, this one's religion is useless. [27] Pure
and undefiled religion before God and the Father is this: to visit orphans and
widows in their trouble, and to keep oneself unspotted from the world.
For Christians to say God is your husband now, is just a get out clause from their
responsibilities. But there again they unfortunately are in good company.
Its sad that "trust in God" is often used as a get out clause when a person is in
difficulty.
Praying you wil get the help and support you need.