We can tell a person probably wasn't born again when they place more importance on their work at commandments than the Work that is already accomplished and being accomplished by the Lord Jesus Christ.
Galatians 3:2-3
[FONT="]2 This only would I learn of you, Received ye the Spirit by the works of the law, or by the hearing of faith?[/FONT]
[FONT="]3 Are ye so foolish? having begun in the Spirit, are ye now made perfect by the flesh?
If you were born again you will understand what this means.
If not, then it is vailed to you. You can't understand.
James 3:17-18
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[FONT="]17 But the wisdom that is from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, and easy to be intreated, full of mercy and good fruits, without partiality, and without hypocrisy.[/FONT]
[FONT="]18 And the fruit of righteousness is sown in peace of them that make peace.[/FONT]