I went to a small meeting years back where the speaker was a woman, Betty Miller by name, her husband was on the stage with her, however she was doing the speaking. Anyway she was calling a few people up for prayer and after a while she asked me if she and her husband could pray for my back. I finally consented and after prayer my back became better(even to this day). I have great respect for the woman and her husband, however I still believe that God has commanded for men to led in the church because it is so clearly written in the word of God. God has exalted His word to an incredible degree, that is what we will be judged by, so it is very important to be in the truth of the word of God.