This is LightningClap's idea:
What about "what trait(s) do you think you most need to improve upon to be the person you wish to be in a marriage"?
So, what changes do you know you need the Lord to help you make?
Mine:
- #1 would definitely be that I need to stop hiding behind my work and work less, which is undoubtedly why I'm still single. I'm reeeally working on this one. Stop laughing. I AM
- Learn to chill more so I could spend more time with whoever he might be rather than thinking I need to be doing something constructive every single minute of my life. Even in CC I feel like I need to be doing more. Maybe if I would slow down, God could teach ME more..
- Be more trusting rather than having concerns that I will repeat my mistakes; maybe even be more trusting of men in general.
-Try to figure out why guys keep telling me that I'm scary.