Hi I married my childhood sweetheart at the age of 18 she was 22 we were together for36 yrs,devote Christians but,we were each others first! So you've had a Buick for 25 yrs and in 25yrs I've had 30 car's, who knows more about car's?? Point being that sometimes the lack of exposure can hurt some people sometimes. ..but know this ,All of this has more to do with him ,than how he may feel about you...as a man I know what he's going through. ..we Need to be validated to boost our self esteem. .you know what will make you valuable. .when he thinks someone else wants you,or you want someone else...do you !! Make over ,pursue other interests. ..don't let him leave you behind....watch what happens...it hhappenthe same way with me...same exact way..I told my wife the same thing. He's seeing someone or wants too..I did but when my beautiful wife got herself together. ..I could not stand the thought of her being with someone else. ..I fought hard to get her back, never did...then she died....I cry every day...EVERYDAY.. and live with regret and despair...cause some people don't miss the water until the well runs dry..36yrs. .gone..I pray for you both..but he just needs to grow up...Listen up folks!! If you EVER find yourself in a situation where you think the grass is greener on the other side...sometimes that just means you need to take care of your own grass..rest in god..ask god to make plain for him to see