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My husband is not being faithful to our marriage - by this I mean that he does not desire sex with me. It has been almost a year that we have been married. We stayed pure before we got married. I told him I have a high sex drive and asked him about his to see if we would be compatible. He told me he has a high sex drive too. He told me we would have children. I tried initiating the first few months. I don't anymore because he does not want me. He never has initiated and hasn't even kissed me since february or march. (Not sure - it's been so long) I think he might be asexual. He has not cheated. He is just not interested in sex at all.
I know Paul says God wants the opposite of this in 1 Corinthians.
If I knew this was true I would not have married him. He has lied about a lot of other things too - the lying has been almost pathological. If I knew the truth I would not have married him. But how can you know the truth if someone is so committed to lying. I am a trusting person and am not always good at telling when people are lying.
I don't know why he married me. He is totally uninterested in me. Because of this I asked him twice why he married me, and he says nothing. Not even because of love. I think he married me because of insecurity. His friend that he idolizes was getting married and he really wanted to be like him & his fiance.
I have been praying for my marriage since the wedding day. He was not interested in sex on the honeymoon either. Yet he rushed the wedding - pressured me to get married sooner than I wanted to. I don't understand...
What should I do?
*also - this is not the point of my post but not good news - some of his lies (& irresponsibility) have hidden the fact that I could be in jeopardy of having Tax Liens against my bank accounts and possible garnishment of my wages...I keep finding out secrets on accident...
I know Paul says God wants the opposite of this in 1 Corinthians.
If I knew this was true I would not have married him. He has lied about a lot of other things too - the lying has been almost pathological. If I knew the truth I would not have married him. But how can you know the truth if someone is so committed to lying. I am a trusting person and am not always good at telling when people are lying.
I don't know why he married me. He is totally uninterested in me. Because of this I asked him twice why he married me, and he says nothing. Not even because of love. I think he married me because of insecurity. His friend that he idolizes was getting married and he really wanted to be like him & his fiance.
I have been praying for my marriage since the wedding day. He was not interested in sex on the honeymoon either. Yet he rushed the wedding - pressured me to get married sooner than I wanted to. I don't understand...
What should I do?
*also - this is not the point of my post but not good news - some of his lies (& irresponsibility) have hidden the fact that I could be in jeopardy of having Tax Liens against my bank accounts and possible garnishment of my wages...I keep finding out secrets on accident...