I think one of the problems is that some Christians don't know what to do with themselves once they get married as they have kept themselves pure until marriage. Talking to each other is a good start and if there are still problems talking to a Christian marriage counselor isn't a bad idea either.
But once married start learning about each other and what you like. I like kissing and hand holding little things. I also like love notes left around because that makes me feel special that my husband cares. Communication is key. If you aren't happy without having sex then talk to your wife about it and find a way to have sex once in a while. People don't like it because they don't talk to each other and express what makes them happy.
Some folks have problems dysfunctions, maybe too fast, too slow....etc.... These things can be worked on and figured out. But it starts by talking about it and trying to work through it. Sometimes partners don't want to talk about it because their feelings get hurt or they feel that they are faulty so the other partner just lives with whatever and then the regrets start... etc.
Talk to your wife about it there is no reason for you to have regrets you just need to work out your issues and pray about them and include God in this tell Him you want to have sex with your wife and not feel so frustrated that you want your relationship with Him and with her to be better and closer than it has ever been before.
No reasons for you to have regrets you can do something about your situation..... ask God to help you with it and how to figure it out....
Thank you for your kind response
My wife is just not "Feely Touchie" at all. Maybe you are, and that approach would be effective for you. But, it is a turn off for her.
Yea, we talk about it from time to time. I accept her the way she is and she accepts me just the way I am.
No, I'm not catholic. I'm not a Christian anymore but sometimes I wish I was, and could talk to god about it.
I was only expressing some hurt feelings for a minute. I'm not really that angry in general.
When I was young I foolishly abided by everything the "Church" told me to do. And even encouraged others to do the same.
I didn't think things out for myself and take responsibility for my own decisions. I was a puppet on a string.
Now, as a mature adult, I regret that!