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Hey Everyone!
Well I have had some pretty big things on my mind and i thought i would share and get your opinions.
I have a boyfriend of over 4 years we have been dating since I was a junio in high school...now i will be a senior in college. He is a wonderful guy! This last fall we started talking about getting married and we had one arguement and his mom found out about it. I (always use to get along with her) She has always been kinda a tough person to be around because she has alot of emotions problems. But anyways since that ONE fight we had she totally turned on me...and i think really what it had to do with was that she thinks michael shouldnt get married for a long time yet. He is 22. She went through a divorse with michaels dad and i think she doesnt believe in love like we do. Eventually i started hearing rumors that she was saying...she started sending facebook messages to michael that were just all bashing me and trying to convince him that there are other fish in see and stuff like that. She started making up lies and telling them to her family and friends. She said i was attacking her via facebook and writing about her. Which i wasnt!! but on several accounts she wrote status about me just not using my name. Eventually people have started to catch on and see that she was making some stuff up but still its been extremely rough on michael and awkward for us to be around his family. On our 4 year anniversary she wrote a really mean status yet again sooo finally we went to try and end the drama. It went horrible. She just tore me part and basically told me i would never had kids a job and michael deserved better...and etc. I have chronic pain illeness and she is using that against me even though i live my life really normally and im in college right now and doing great!!
She now thinks that i owe her an appoligy for everything. Michael and I spent months not talking to her and he now will visit her when he comes to our hometown but my heart is just so broken over this all. I really just have alot of hate for all the things she has done to me. the examples i gave i could probably right a whole page full of stuff. I just dont know how to find the strenth to forgive....I have never dealt with anything like this before I usually always get along with everyone! I have prayed about it alot and talked with my friends....but for months i was pretty depressed over it. Its very difficult since it is his MOM! family is important!
If you have any advice let me know! thank you!
Kelly
Well I have had some pretty big things on my mind and i thought i would share and get your opinions.
I have a boyfriend of over 4 years we have been dating since I was a junio in high school...now i will be a senior in college. He is a wonderful guy! This last fall we started talking about getting married and we had one arguement and his mom found out about it. I (always use to get along with her) She has always been kinda a tough person to be around because she has alot of emotions problems. But anyways since that ONE fight we had she totally turned on me...and i think really what it had to do with was that she thinks michael shouldnt get married for a long time yet. He is 22. She went through a divorse with michaels dad and i think she doesnt believe in love like we do. Eventually i started hearing rumors that she was saying...she started sending facebook messages to michael that were just all bashing me and trying to convince him that there are other fish in see and stuff like that. She started making up lies and telling them to her family and friends. She said i was attacking her via facebook and writing about her. Which i wasnt!! but on several accounts she wrote status about me just not using my name. Eventually people have started to catch on and see that she was making some stuff up but still its been extremely rough on michael and awkward for us to be around his family. On our 4 year anniversary she wrote a really mean status yet again sooo finally we went to try and end the drama. It went horrible. She just tore me part and basically told me i would never had kids a job and michael deserved better...and etc. I have chronic pain illeness and she is using that against me even though i live my life really normally and im in college right now and doing great!!
She now thinks that i owe her an appoligy for everything. Michael and I spent months not talking to her and he now will visit her when he comes to our hometown but my heart is just so broken over this all. I really just have alot of hate for all the things she has done to me. the examples i gave i could probably right a whole page full of stuff. I just dont know how to find the strenth to forgive....I have never dealt with anything like this before I usually always get along with everyone! I have prayed about it alot and talked with my friends....but for months i was pretty depressed over it. Its very difficult since it is his MOM! family is important!
If you have any advice let me know! thank you!
Kelly