[FYI, that's the most important aspect. And like Nautilus, you seem to be unable to forgive divorce, but are willing to condone same-sex marriage. That's interesting, in and of itself.
The tone of your post seems to be that we, too, are hypocrites, or that we at least "overlook" biblical passages and glom onto others. What about your own hypocrisy in condemning a Christian woman who stands up for what God says about the constituents of a marriage, while being willing to overlook the fact that Jesus said that, for adultery, divorce is allowable, and at any rate, all sin is forgivable in the believer?
And yes, before you ask, that forgiveness is available to homosexual behaviors as well, as long as they acknowledge, as much the fornicator, adulterer, liar, thief, or murderer that their sins are just that -- sins.