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I don't know, maybe this thread was kind of stupid, but I just wanted to get all of your guys' thoughts. Maybe I'm being a little too judgmental and critical, because all guys and girls too (youre right) struggle with that lust aspect. I guess the difference is their determination and attitude to seriously stray away from that behavior, or just continuously acting that way without maybe realizing or caring. With using that excuse, "well I'm not perfect" which is true but..I don't know. At the same time, It just beats me up sometimes that most guys do not look at me as more than a friend, due to me never having a boyfriend ever and being really innocent and having more strict , higher standards. Some have told me that they do not want to be the first guy to take away that "innocence" from me, because it wont work out. Innocence as in holding hands, cuddling, and kissing , etc. which I don't understand. (not sex). Im just looked as the "conservative good little cute girl" lol. I guess having high standards, never having a boyfriend ( so I guess being inexperienced) bothers guys and believing of not getting too intimate when dating puts off their interest. Sometimes, I think theres a problem with me, but I wont change my beliefs and the way I am for nobody. It's just disappointing.