I will marry one who is dying since
everyday we are dying, in fact. There was a time I planned to marry a blind or a deaf, but I found some troubles when I´ve found myself blind to be seen or heard and too mute to talk to deaf people (I dont know sign language and, sometimes, often, Im talky).
That is understood. I am Deaf myself however, I had hard time with some Deaf people as well! Why? My personality and how I was raised. I am actually a "Hearing" person trapped in a Deaf person body. I hardly hang out with Deaf people. Only ONE Deaf man only ONE day this year I talked to in person! And it is already ending of April.
There are two things to make this successful as I learned. You have to set yourself lower if you really love that Deaf person or Blind (please note I capitalized because Deaf people prefer to be recognized as a nation of their own. Like "American", "Native American" and, "Asian", etc.) person, you can be more successful however it is much hard work the same way if you are blind.
Second of all, you have to have patience and learn sign language or a language that person uses. Even with a person dying with an illness or even mental, social, or development health issue, you need to be able to communicate to meet with that person's needs. For example, if one has Asperger's, you need to be able to communicate their language to make it ease and without any "insulting" because of that Autism Spectrum has a little so called, "Anti-Social" but they are able to communicate.
It takes a lot of guts to do so. There is another issue. Say if a person looks fine and married someone but when that spouse becomes so ill or has developed a health issue such as hearing loss, depression, etc, you need to make a huge adjustment to adopt that because this the vow you took when you get marry! "...For richer or poorer, for health or sickness." I would do so.
There are more issues that can be faced such as when a child dies long prior parents' death that the child is supposed to bury the parents, not other way around, communication is very important to keep marriage working. It is a sad fact that 90 percent of marriages (that includes Christians too) fail because of this situation.
By this means, you have to be extremely strong person prior you accepting that relationship. I am that way since people tells me I am strong person. They are correct because I used to be engaged to someone who was dying with Sickle Cell Anemia and we were planning to marry and the problem was that it was different issue, not health. I was fine with that and was on her side in the hospital every 3 months (her stay is about a month in length each time). Well, we broke up because I was having hard time finding a job in a very populated Latino City of Miami (not in Little Cuba though) and they were focusing on hiring Latinos and Latinas). Anyway, because of this, we broke up). This one she COULD NOT handle my hard time with finding work in 2002. I moved everything down there to live there and had to move back home.
So you need to be strong. And communicate well with someone even who is dying. To answer the person who started this topic, yes, I would marry in a flash to make her happy when she is dying.