Blains Christian cafe

Blain · Jan 20, 2015

I sort of stole the idea so there may be some legal issues later but.... welcome to blains cafe we only serve quality discussions here as we are fresh out of coffee and tasty food.

my first conversation is about handling a situation out of love. We are Christians and we claim to be love however every now and then we slip up and emotions tend to run wild and we say things we later regret. did this happen to you today? were in a debate and lost your cool for a minute? or were you stuck in traffic and maybe go to frustrated and said or thought things you know were not nice? maybe you are at work and there is a person who really gets to ya and you maybe were not as nice as you could be.

Now what can you do to avoid this? I advise you first take a biiiiig breath and slowly breath out this isnt just a yoga thing it really does relax you. next maybe start a conversation with god to distract you from your problem or turn on the tunes listen to some christian music also maybe read some scriptures.

i hope this has helped you even just a little maybe next time we will have coffee:]

tourist · Jan 20, 2015

I would like a double espresso and an apple fritter.

Blain · Jan 20, 2015

tourist said:

Oh hey Jerry hows the battle against tobaco going any progress?

1joseph · Jan 20, 2015

Blain said:

I sort of stole the idea so there may be some legal issues later but.... welcome to blains cafe we only serve quality discussions here as we are fresh out of coffee and tasty food.

my first conversation is about handling a situation out of love. We are Christians and we claim to be love however every now and then we slip up and emotions tend to run wild and we say things we later regret. did this happen to you today? were in a debate and lost your cool for a minute? or were you stuck in traffic and maybe go to frustrated and said or thought things you know were not nice? maybe you are at work and there is a person who really gets to ya and you maybe were not as nice as you could be.

Now what can you do to avoid this? I advise you first take a biiiiig breath and slowly breath out this isnt just a yoga thing it really does relax you. next maybe start a conversation with god to distract you from your problem or turn on the tunes listen to some christian music also maybe read some scriptures.

i hope this has helped you even just a little maybe next time we will have coffee:]

Peace be unto you my brethren.

JesusLives · Jan 20, 2015

I felt sorry for our Manny brother who tried the Christianity Café of his own on his first post and got blasted by all our lovely brethren.....anyway make mine a decaf and lets sit a spell and rest a while and try to learn to love the newbies that come to the site. Poor Manny probably won't post another thing after the whipping he was dealt.....and we preach love one another??

tourist · Jan 20, 2015

Blain said:

Sadly, no. I am still at 2 smokes a day. This is really crazy as that is not a whole lot of nicotine in the first place. I still get cravings though-out the day for more. I must reach a point where I just give up those two smokes and suffer for however long it takes for the cravings to greatly diminish to where smoking is no longer on my mind. I must be a coward in this regards as the thought of not smoking for the rest of my life scares me.

JFSurvivor · Jan 20, 2015

JesusLives said:

I felt sorry for our Manny brother who tried the Christianity Café of his own on his first post and got blasted by all our lovely brethren.....anyway make mine a decaf and lets sit a spell and rest a while and try to learn to love the newbies that come to the site. Poor Manny probably won't post another thing after the whipping he was dealt.....and we preach love one another??

This kinda made me feel like crying a little...I dunno why...

Kerry · Jan 20, 2015

Whatever you have that has fat, I'll take it.

blue_ladybug · Jan 20, 2015

tourist said:

Two smokes a day is a heckuva lot better than 2 PACKS a day..you're doing rather well..keep it up..

tourist · Jan 20, 2015

blue_ladybug said:

God bless you for your kind words of encouragement.

JesusLives · Jan 20, 2015

JFSurvivor said:

You are right it should make us feel like crying because we should not treat anyone harshly even if they treat us badly because that is the Christian way. Turn the other cheek, love the Lord with all your heart and your neighbor as yourself. That is what we are taught, sadly not displayed very often....Yes, it should make us all feel like crying....You have soft heart go look up the other café thread and welcome MannyO in a more pleasant way as I tried to. His post was not presented well but I caught what he was trying to get across.....God bless your tender heart.

blue_ladybug · Jan 20, 2015

tourist said:

you're welcome..and God bless you with the enduring will to overcome your smoking habit at last..

Blain · Jan 20, 2015

Jerry ony two smokes a day is fantastic as you are a heavy smoker right? Slow and steady wins the race my friend. and yes mom manny was not treated very well so i messaged him to try to help him but he never replied

JesusLives · Jan 20, 2015

blue_ladybug said:

Yes, it is much better, but it is not BEST......please don't feed the SMOKING TROLL.......lol I am married to him and I want him to live and all I see is two nails in the coffin per day.....You can't convince the Blond who has lost in death two parents from SMOKING that 2 per day is a good thing.....NO WAY.... Yes, it is horrible Jerry.....I love you give it up.... Sorry this is what happen when you are typing in the same room with said smoker......responding to you Lady Blue and him at the same time......

blue_ladybug · Jan 20, 2015

JesusLives said:

To clarify, I meant keep it up as in keep on striving to quit for good..lol..not to keep smoking two cigs a day.. ur such a blonde, Darlene..lol jk

AbbeyJoy · Jan 20, 2015

So how is everyone and Hi Tourists yeah my brother and sister-in-law is trying to stop too for their baby's stake what they do is drink coffee alot and chew gum a lot too Hope you guys are doing good

JesusLives · Jan 20, 2015

blue_ladybug said:

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You don't understand Lady Blue by your encourage words HE takes it as O.K. to continue to smoke 2 per day.....that is why HE is smiling right now as HE thinks HE has gotten permission to carry on....lol I am not being that Blond I just know how his smoking mind thinks.....I love him and I want to stop nagging him....

So request out from the Blond to all who are in the Café to please agree with me in PRAYER to ask God to help Jerry give up cigarettes forever and let go of the crutch of 2 smokes a day.....Thanks to all who respond to this request....Blessings and love sent your way from the Blond....much gratitude....

Hizikyah · Jan 20, 2015

This cafe got any Bread?

I want some Bread!

Matt 26:26, "Now as they were eating, Yahshua took bread, and after blessing, broke it and gave it to the disciples, and said, “Take, eat; this is My body."

blue_ladybug · Jan 20, 2015

JesusLives said:

well, dang.. **assumes intimidating ninja attitude* Tourist, you better quit smoking NOW or else I'm gonna kick some Florida tourist butt and believe me I can do it..lol.. I'm able to resume my ninja duties again so watch it buddy..lol

Lord, give Jerry the will and strength to quit smoking..make the cigarettes bitter in his mouth..give him a distaste for them..and remind him how many pollutants he's filling YOUR body with..in Jesus name, amen.

psychomom · Jan 20, 2015

Blain, wait...there's no coffee served here??

in a café?

it's okay, i brought my own. ♥

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