Of course, the thing that irritates me the most about this thread, quite simply, is that a man is throwing Scripture in the face of every woman here. Without knowing how any of us dress, how we are in our marriages, in our churches or jobs, families, etc.
Plus, no man can know that we have a women's forum, where we discuss among ourselves these very issues. Yes, we are mature enough to consult one another on modesty, dress and decorum!
I think if a man wants to give directions to other men, using the word of God, that is awesome. But when someone comes on condemning the women in the forum for something we have not done, then it is time to draw a line in the sand.
And yes, I know VR already covered this much better than I did. I was driving in my car high in the Rocky Mountains with limited cell phone coverage (and who wants to post from a tiny cell phone screen anyway?!) and didn't get my two cents in. Well, make that zero cents, rounding it down in Canada, since we don't have the penny anymore!