On the topic of relationships for the men and women
1) If you do not love her, do not say GOD showed me in a vision
2) Do you use the name of the Lord in vain when approaching someone like "Thus saith Lord"
3) If she is yours, there will be more than one confirmation
4) If you are still in High school, Think about your studies,and GOD
5) Make sure you are mature (GOD witnessing in your heart) enough to have a wife
6) Do not be swayed by peer pressure
7) SHE/HE MUST BE BORN AGAIN, GOD FEARING CHRISTIAN
8) Ladies do not play easy to get, Be absolutely and positively sure that HE loves you and is not acting (GIFT OF DISCERNMENT)
9) Seek the Lord daily on this for more confirmation
10) No Pre-marital sex
11) A man must be able to take care of her lady financially, that is have a stable job before you go into a relationship.
12) For the men, learn how to be a good leader, a problem solver (Gift of wisdom) and a man of Vision(leadership skill). Strong in faith, and able to to keep the Home safe from demons AND people. Able to be keep the family together in unity, and the Fear of the Lord always abounding in the family
13) GOD is always first in everything
14) GOD gave you a brain, Use it, give the lady good and honest answers to ALL her questions. Love does not hide flaws, or weaknesses, or SIN.
15) Family is second ALWAYS if GOD has given you a ministry, always remember FAMILY IS ALWAYS SECOND. You can not spend most of your time at work and Neglect family time. God is never pleased with that, Which comes to the other character, Self control. There must be BALANCE between how you deal with family and how you deal with WORK.
16) Do not be hasty to get into a wedding, make sure you got a lot of things covered, IE if you had pre-marital sex before being born again, Get delivered from that.
17) Never ever, mix two girls or have multiple relationships before marriage just TO TEST who is right. That is a sin. a double minded man Will NEVER make the right decision, He is unstable in ALL HIS WAYS
18) Born again Christian for Born again christian, YOU CAN NEVER CHANGE someones faith. So do not lie to your self and say i can change him, matterfact you taking GODS job and making it yours, HE says, HE TURNS the heart of stone into a heart of flesh. HE not you, HE is the one who convicts, HE reproves of judgements, HE works inside the hearts of men or women
19) Beware of men who get saved because they want to marry you. The foundation to ANYONES relationship with GOD is CHRIST. And NOT YOU, You are NOT greater than CHRIST, Christ is GREATER than you. The same with women.
20) Do not be impatient when waiting for the one GOD wants for you, When the time is RIGHT you two will meet
21) MEN approach ladies, Ladies wait to be approached.
22) If you have ANY hatred towards men or women, deal with that before you get married or enter any relationship. That WILL be a burden for the both of you
23) If you have had issues with masturbation and still are struggling with them, Deal with that as well.
24) Marriage, or relationships SHOULD Founded on Unconditional LOVE, Babies ARE BLESSINGS, car, money are temporary, and other material stuff as well.
25) Get to know each other WELL before you get married. Get to know each other AS MUCH as Possible..
26) Find a lady/man that will add More log to your fire, not water.
There are a lot but these are just some that have been covered by a pastor.
1) If you do not love her, do not say GOD showed me in a vision
2) Do you use the name of the Lord in vain when approaching someone like "Thus saith Lord"
3) If she is yours, there will be more than one confirmation
4) If you are still in High school, Think about your studies,and GOD
5) Make sure you are mature (GOD witnessing in your heart) enough to have a wife
6) Do not be swayed by peer pressure
7) SHE/HE MUST BE BORN AGAIN, GOD FEARING CHRISTIAN
8) Ladies do not play easy to get, Be absolutely and positively sure that HE loves you and is not acting (GIFT OF DISCERNMENT)
9) Seek the Lord daily on this for more confirmation
10) No Pre-marital sex
11) A man must be able to take care of her lady financially, that is have a stable job before you go into a relationship.
12) For the men, learn how to be a good leader, a problem solver (Gift of wisdom) and a man of Vision(leadership skill). Strong in faith, and able to to keep the Home safe from demons AND people. Able to be keep the family together in unity, and the Fear of the Lord always abounding in the family
13) GOD is always first in everything
14) GOD gave you a brain, Use it, give the lady good and honest answers to ALL her questions. Love does not hide flaws, or weaknesses, or SIN.
15) Family is second ALWAYS if GOD has given you a ministry, always remember FAMILY IS ALWAYS SECOND. You can not spend most of your time at work and Neglect family time. God is never pleased with that, Which comes to the other character, Self control. There must be BALANCE between how you deal with family and how you deal with WORK.
16) Do not be hasty to get into a wedding, make sure you got a lot of things covered, IE if you had pre-marital sex before being born again, Get delivered from that.
17) Never ever, mix two girls or have multiple relationships before marriage just TO TEST who is right. That is a sin. a double minded man Will NEVER make the right decision, He is unstable in ALL HIS WAYS
18) Born again Christian for Born again christian, YOU CAN NEVER CHANGE someones faith. So do not lie to your self and say i can change him, matterfact you taking GODS job and making it yours, HE says, HE TURNS the heart of stone into a heart of flesh. HE not you, HE is the one who convicts, HE reproves of judgements, HE works inside the hearts of men or women
19) Beware of men who get saved because they want to marry you. The foundation to ANYONES relationship with GOD is CHRIST. And NOT YOU, You are NOT greater than CHRIST, Christ is GREATER than you. The same with women.
20) Do not be impatient when waiting for the one GOD wants for you, When the time is RIGHT you two will meet
21) MEN approach ladies, Ladies wait to be approached.
22) If you have ANY hatred towards men or women, deal with that before you get married or enter any relationship. That WILL be a burden for the both of you
23) If you have had issues with masturbation and still are struggling with them, Deal with that as well.
24) Marriage, or relationships SHOULD Founded on Unconditional LOVE, Babies ARE BLESSINGS, car, money are temporary, and other material stuff as well.
25) Get to know each other WELL before you get married. Get to know each other AS MUCH as Possible..
26) Find a lady/man that will add More log to your fire, not water.
There are a lot but these are just some that have been covered by a pastor.
