Adam was not deceived but chose to eat of the forbidden tree. Why?

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I've never started any serious threads before, so just going to put on my helpmet and crash gear and throw it in there.... And ooo, look at the typo I just happenstanced to make! helpmet? hmm...It's like 'helpmeet' in past tense where I meant to write 'helmet' but... WEll, I can't bring myself to go back and erase it. It's all too fitting for this topic! So...

I've learned there is a school of thought that goes something like this: since Adam was not deceived, he chose death for Eve's sake...

But however romantic this seems to me, for some reason I've found it difficult to fully accept it as anything more than speculation as to why he would, apparently, chose death if he didn't believe what the serpent said, 'surely, you will not die...'

Eve was deceived, yes, as scripture says outrightly, So, I guess I'd have to do a deeper study of the meaning of deceived to get an idea of actually transpired in this event.
Basically, she was deceived because she believed a lie, which is the closest definition I have of it to this point, and we know where that lie came from. However, we also know that Eve was not yet created when God commanded Adam of what trees he may and may not eat (ge 3:16). This is key in distinguishing between Eve's vulnerability to deception in contrast to Adam. Imo, because Adam knew exactly what God said, he could not be deceived. He didn't choose Eve, after all, he threw her under the bus, and henceforth rule 'over' her rather than reigned 'alongside' her, which is love as it is meant to be. He outrightly judged God to be a liar and chose to eat of the tree. So then, it is my position that his sin is greater because he chose 'unbelief' in God's direct word and exchanged it for the serpents lie, and that is how sin entered in through Adam.

Though, as I said before, the former theory that Adam did it for the love of Eve is so very romantic.
God put the tree of the knowledge of good and evil in the garden because He gave them a choice.

It would of never entered their minds to eat of the fruit of that tree unless an outside source tempted them so God allowed Satan to tempt Eve.

Satan tempted Eve which she said they could not eat of that tree so Satan tempted her with an alternate reality that if she ate of the tree they would be as gods an elevated position from their current position and Eve ate the fruit and sinned.

Eve was then the outside source and she tempted Adam to eat the fruit which Adam saw that nothing happened to Eve so he ate of the fruit and sinned.
 

Mem

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God put the tree of the knowledge of good and evil in the garden because He gave them a choice.

It would of never entered their minds to eat of the fruit of that tree unless an outside source tempted them so God allowed Satan to tempt Eve.

Satan tempted Eve which she said they could not eat of that tree so Satan tempted her with an alternate reality that if she ate of the tree they would be as gods an elevated position from their current position and Eve ate the fruit and sinned.

Eve was then the outside source and she tempted Adam to eat the fruit which Adam saw that nothing happened to Eve so he ate of the fruit and sinned.
That "Adam saw that nothing happened to Eve" is a pretty straight forward explanation of why Adam ate the fruit, but my attempt is in factoring in that he was not deceived into equation and how that might affect the conclusion. For example, Eve saw the fruit was good for food, and desirable for gaining wisdom. Do you think that Adam agreed with her perspective? Or did he know it was "not good" or even evil? Was the tree actually 'not good' or was it only eating of (the fruit of) it that was not good?

IOW, Were they each inherently endowed with the gift of discernment, provided with a choice, and simply chose wrongly? If so, then she eating being deceived evidences some sort of ignorance or something or other, and his choice evidences an apparent rejection of a truth that he 'knew was right,' or at the least an acceptance of a lie that he knew was wrong.

Eve believed a lie, so it follows to assume that she was deceived into choosing the lie, given that scripture is explicit in stating that she was deceived. So I guess I'm wondering what factored into her choice as much as I wonder that Adam was not deceived and what he (choose to) believe as much as why.
 

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Perhaps Adam not deceived means that he was not tempted by the serpent as Eve was. Adam would have committed the greater transgression because...

1. He was the head (leader) and the more accountable one. Men are still responsible for spiritual leadership in the home even today.

2. He did not have the excuse of saying "the serpent tricked me."

3. He was the first created and had spent more time with God than Eve had.

The one fact, that God told them not to partake of the fruit, made it "not good". How it looked or smelled would not change that fact. Men are still tempted by many types of forbidden fruit today. Adam had a choice just as men do today. God may have known what would happen, but that can be said for everything for all times.

Since this laid the groundwork for Jesus' gracious Atonement. Could we say we profited from Adam's mistake?
 

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Perhaps Adam not deceived means that he was not tempted by the serpent as Eve was. Adam would have committed the greater transgression because...
I'm leaning heavily toward that it is because....
...Adam rejected God's truth, hence the fitting judgment that ground resists, perhaps even rejects, his desire that it bear fruit for him. This would correlate with an explanation of Eve's transgression generating her judgment that, in spite of her desire or shall we say her 'readiness to receive' his seed (unlike the ground), the pain in childbearing is to be compounded by Adam's reluctance to love her as himself, as is explicitly commanded in scripture. And Scripture's instruction to husbands to do this evidences a common unfilled need, just as much as its instruction to wives to submit (although the additional instruction that they 'submit one to another' evidences a suggestion of mutual submission that most would rather ignore in for the one-sided interpretation that highlights only the wife's instruction).
How ever some might portray the marriage relationship as two becoming one, as it is intended, the apparent reality is that many live more as one plus half the one. And so ensues the struggle to gain her full standing which attempt then too often results in an 'usurping' enterprise, which also goes beyond any definition of 'love' which is, in its truest characteristic, submissive.

Not that many will agree but, there it is to look at anyway.
 

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'submit one to another' evidences a suggestion of mutual submission
Yes, I'm sure that love entails, requires, and desires a give and take going both ways.

Acts 20:35 I have shewed you all things, how that so labouring ye ought to support the weak, and to remember the words of the Lord Jesus, how he said, It is more blessed to give than to receive.
 
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I see Noah here and there among all the Lamech who, btw, died in the flood.
I do not believe Lamech dies in the flood.

According to Gen 5:30, Lamech lived after he begat Noah five hundred ninety and five years and according to Gen 7:6 and 7:11, Noah was six hundred years old when the flood started.

So it appears Lamech died 5 years before the flood.

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I do not believe Lamech dies in the flood.

According to Gen 5:30, Lamech lived after he begat Noah five hundred ninety and five years and according to Gen 7:6 and 7:11, Noah was six hundred years old when the flood started.

So it appears Lamech died 5 years before the flood.
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I confused Noah's father, a descendent of Seth, with the descendent of Cain, son of Methuselah, in that comment. Thank you for that clarification! :oops:
 

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I confused Noah's father, a descendent of Seth, with the descendent of Cain, son of Methuselah, in that comment. Thank you for that clarification! :oops:
son of Methushael ^ ... another correction:cautious:
 

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son of Methushael ^ ... another correction:cautious:
This was the Lamech I was thinking of in that comment, not Lamech the son of Methuselah. The son of Methushael, Lamech, is the first to violate the primeval ordinance of marriage by having two wives, and is the last known descendent of Cain.
At any rate, one can see how interpretations might be too easily confused if quickly skimming through scripture and assuming anything rather than giving more careful consideration to each and every detail.
 
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This was the Lamech I was thinking of in that comment, not Lamech the son of Methuselah. The son of Methushael, Lamech, is the first to violate the primeval ordinance of marriage by having two wives, and is the last known descendent of Cain.
At any rate, one can see how interpretations might be too easily confused if quickly skimming through scripture and assuming anything rather than giving more careful consideration to each and every detail.
Actually, the last known descendant of Cain is a woman, Naamah.
 

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I do not believe Lamech dies in the flood.

According to Gen 5:30, Lamech lived after he begat Noah five hundred ninety and five years and according to Gen 7:6 and 7:11, Noah was six hundred years old when the flood started.

So it appears Lamech died 5 years before the flood.
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Lamech had lived 182 years when he had a son and named him Noah

Lamech lived a total of 777 years, and then he died. Math makes my head spin :giggle:
 
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Was she stow-away?
Even though she came from a rough family and the dark race of Cain she might have found one of the light sons of Seth that still believed in God to marry her and consequently survived the Flood.
 

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Lamech had lived 182 years when he had a son and named him Noah

Lamech lived a total of 777 years, and then he died. Math makes my head spin :giggle:
renewed assumed I was referring to the Lamech that I quoted in a previous post, and that Lamech was the son of Methusaleh, whose death brought the flood and who is descended from the line of Seth. He lived 595 years after Noah's birth before he died, and five years later, when Noah was 600, the flood rains came. I too quickly assumed the Lamech I quoted was the same Lamech that wrote the rap about killing a man but that one is Lamech son of Methushael, who is not to be confused with Methusaleh who is descended from Seth, because Methushael is descended from Cain, Seth's older brother... and
...I don't know if this helps any with the spinning :/
 

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Even though she came from a rough family and the dark race of Cain she might have found one of the light sons of Seth that still believed in God to marry her and consequently survived the Flood.
Canaanites are descended from Ham, there's no relation to Cain there.
 

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renewed assumed I was referring to the Lamech that I quoted in a previous post, and that Lamech was the son of Methusaleh, whose death brought the flood and who is descended from the line of Seth. He lived 595 years after Noah's birth before he died, and five years later, when Noah was 600, the flood rains came. I too quickly assumed the Lamech I quoted was the same Lamech that wrote the rap about killing a man but that one is Lamech son of Methushael, who is not to be confused with Methusaleh who is descended from Seth, because Methushael is descended from Cain, Seth's older brother... and
...I don't know if this helps any with the spinning :/
Lamenting the Lamechs and bemoaning the begats... <= me ;):unsure::giggle:
 
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This was the Lamech I was thinking of in that comment, not Lamech the son of Methuselah. The son of Methushael, Lamech, is the first to violate the primeval ordinance of marriage by having two wives, and is the last known descendent of Cain.
At any rate, one can see how interpretations might be too easily confused if quickly skimming through scripture and assuming anything rather than giving more careful consideration to each and every detail.
yeah, I hear you. all those begats and such ... gets kinda confusing. There's also an Enoch in Cain's line (grandson of Adam) ... not to be confused with Enoch the seventh from Adam who prophesied Behold, the Lord cometh with ten thousands of his saints ... wonder what magnificent visions did he see!!!
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Lamech had lived 182 years when he had a son and named him Noah

Lamech lived a total of 777 years, and then he died. Math makes my head spin :giggle:
yeah ... it'd take me 777 years to figure out all the begats ... of course if/when I ever did figure them out, I'd have forgotten why I was trying to figure all that out - hah!!!
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