Anyone Know Your Calling?

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Yet, I agree with you , tearing down dead churches, (organizations who think they are a part of the Church of God.) to destroy their bad witness is a good calling. I have helped rid the country of 2 dead churches and get rid of their buildings, sold or demolished. One is a home now. This is part of God's calling on my life. To turn a church building into a useful purpose is a worthy cause, the steeple is a testimony to God"s once using it as a meeting place for God's witness to the world. New England is full of old churches ,some need to be destroyed and some preserved as beautiful samples of yesterdays story for the future to follow. Love to all, Hoffco
From your response, it's apparent that Yet was actually being serious with his own post! That's definitely not a common calling but one that is possible. I never saw in the physical that churches need to come down sometimes; I do see in the spirit that the things that maintain most churches and church structures or false religion (the religious spirit) have to come down if ground will be gained in so many people's lives-- especially the lives of people who've already been indoctrinated into Religion (most of 'Christianity' today that says you're saved not because you lived saved but because you want it to be true) rather than into Jesus Christ (selfless living for Christ).

An aside: concerning the bold statement that the religious spirit (some call it the 'Pharisee spirit') is what maintains the existence of most churches (church buildings) rather than their being maintained by Jesus Christ Himself, here's a short true story: I was in Michigan for a while in '12 and was going to a church that was struggling with how to proceed. They had no permanent pastor and were trying to decide whether to hire another pastor, sell the building and meet house to house, and there were two other options. I was amazed to learn that they had about eight separate teams or ministries (the intercessory team, the prayer group, the leadership board, etc.) that were separately praying for God's wisdom on the matter, some members of one team also a part of other teams. I had no idea how they should proceed... until I asked God. Immediately, He told me that they should sell the building and begin meeting house to house, explaining why that was the best option (which, of course, made perfect sense). I reported this back to one of the men on the leadership team... but though they were 'praying to God', they didn't want to follow Him (a phenomenon in so many churches). That was the same church in which the Lord finally 'came in' at a Bible study in which the leader started with 'the program'; when I got a chance to say something, I began to talk about the things regarding the Kingdom of God (i.e. the things on God's heart, not on our agenda). Immediately, the atmosphere began to change, and peace settled around us so that even those who preferred that God stay away settled down and chucked the anxious striving. Then the Lord showed up and listened as we talked. I recorded that at number 4 on this link so no need to repeat: http://christianchat.com/bible-discussion-forum/84689-experiencing-gods-presence-my-experiences.html. The religious spirit opposes God's right to rule in the churches-- i.e. His right to dictate how 'the program' goes. Any church that operates within a tight program (i.e. the same thing every Sunday) and doesn't want to budge or relax its control and allow the Lord to enter in and minister to the people is under the grip (the control, the rulership, the 'strong hold') of the religious spirit (religious spirit: "We'll do Christianity our way and our time and call it God").
 

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I was watching a youtube video, a cover of one of my favorite songs-- 'Don't Wanna Miss a Thing' by Aerosmith-- and suddenly began to think about the issue of calling and purpose. I meet a lot of people whose primary callings seem apparent to me; but most people don't know what in the world they are called to! I think it's important for everyone to at least have an idea of what God is calling them to and why they're alive (it definitely isn't to debate and discuss Christian points). Here's the video by the way:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3zqnUkoFeLQ&index=2&list=RDDnU5ryajwQY

I've watched movies and done some pretty normal and unspiritual things when God began to speak to me (not speak word for word but to open my understanding to see things). One memorable movie was 'King Arthur' (2004 with Clive Owen); the most memorable was actually a cartoon (animated movie): 'Prince of Egypt'. I've found that God definitely isn't confined to church walls nor even to Christianity; He is after everyone and is focused on those who are not yet 'gathered in'. Watching the above video, the issue of callings returned to me with even more clarity. I know one thing for sure: the coming days are going to be something else if we are to compare Christianity now to Christianity then. Does anyone know what it is God has called you to and what your purpose is, what God has called you into the Kingdom here on earth for?

Those guys in the video, by the way, did an excellent job covering that song. :)
Yes i know what God Has called me to do.
An Evangelist by calling. Full on evangelist? Do not know yet, but He has confirmed that HE will use me to win MANY souls for Him..
 
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Yes i know what God Has called me to do.
An Evangelist by calling. Full on evangelist? Do not know yet, but He has confirmed that HE will use me to win MANY souls for Him..
Do you know what field you're to evangelize or has that not been explained to you yet. Is it a specific people group or region or is it general evangelism.
 

JoyfulFleur

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Ill suppose when you say "calling" you are referring to what I call "purpose". (they term is of no importance, only state to assure we speak of same definition.

I'll assume you are asking if what you feel like He is calling you to do is of Him. if, in fact it is what He design you to do?

As I mention in the other thread, it is no accident that there is something that you love to do that we all say "I wish I could do this for a living". No ma'am. that is God given. This passion is a Joy that he ingrained in you in your aid to "desire to do His Will.

Visualize in front of you is a table and on it is:

a toolbox with your skills

another box with full of resources

a rolodex of Christian contacts.

At first look (as many Christians see them) the stuff just looks things to have around but really doesn't serve any purpose. This is how many Christians miss out on one of the greatest experiences about being alive.

Now, look again at that table. this time take that passion that is in you and put it on the table with the other items. That passion now adds a different dynamic to just random items. What you now see is the opportunity to change and impact lives just as Jesus would do if were to become a mortal man walking as we are.

If you are interested in the thread that gives specific details to assist you in jogging your inner self go to the thread that Allin has linked.
This was a great explanation. I've kind hummed and hawed over what could possibly be God's calling for me. There are many things I feel passionate about and wouldn't mind making them my future life story. At times, though, I wonder if maybe these wants are just of my own or were they actually placed in me by God. You know? I will definitely check out that thread!


That's a good question. You usually need someone who is older or more mature to teach you those kinds of things-- what God is calling you to and how to recognize His voice, because though we rarely hear, He does speak often (Job 33:14). In Samuel 3, when Samuel was little, God began to speak to him by literally calling him by name. Samuel had no idea that God was calling him (he thought it was Eli), a very good example of where many people are today: God is calling them, but no one is there to tell them that is what is happening. Samuel, however, had an older 'Christian' (Eli) available who, though disobedient to God, at least had lived long enough to know when God is calling someone. After God had called Samuel three times and Samuel had gone to Eli all three times thinking that it was Eli calling him, Eli recognized that it was God who was calling Samuel and told him how to respond and receive the calling or hear from God. When Samuel heard God call him the fourth time, he followed Eli's advice, and sure enough God was able to speak to him about his calling beginning with the first thing he was being called to do (which was to give Eli a message from God).

When there is no older or more experienced Christian in your life, there will naturally be a lot that remains unexplained, and it's not uncommon to miss God's calling for having no one to tell you what it looks like. Some callings come through prophetic words spoken over you; but it usually will take at least one older or more experienced Christian to help you understand it and respond correctly to it. If you don't have anyone like that in your life, then you can ask God to send such a person but to, in the meanwhile, show you what His calling is for you. Until He provides someone to explain things to you, He can do it in the meantime.
You know, I totally forgot about that story. Thanks for reminding me of it and using it in such a manner. It had a good Biblical analogy(proper word?) for listening for God's calling. I have a lot of older and experienced people in my life, but so far they haven't contributed to helping me understand such things. I am not really lost on the matter, so to speak, just a bit discouraged. So many possible life stories for me but none of them feel like the 'right' one. Hopefully that makes sense. Anywho, I'm still praying about it.


Sorry for such late responses. I was on vacation and only had my iPad for internet access. Typing on that thing isn't fun for me...:rolleyes: So I waited until I had computer access to reply
 
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This was a great explanation. I've kind hummed and hawed over what could possibly be God's calling for me. There are many things I feel passionate about and wouldn't mind making them my future life story. At times, though, I wonder if maybe these wants are just of my own or were they actually placed in me by God. You know? I will definitely check out that thread!




You know, I totally forgot about that story. Thanks for reminding me of it and using it in such a manner. It had a good Biblical analogy(proper word?) for listening for God's calling. I have a lot of older and experienced people in my life, but so far they haven't contributed to helping me understand such things. I am not really lost on the matter, so to speak, just a bit discouraged. So many possible life stories for me but none of them feel like the 'right' one. Hopefully that makes sense. Anywho, I'm still praying about it.


Sorry for such late responses. I was on vacation and only had my iPad for internet access. Typing on that thing isn't fun for me...:rolleyes: So I waited until I had computer access to reply
Being prayerful and feeding on God's Word day by day is something that makes an excellent background for in God's time seeing what His will is for our lives.

Blessings.
 

ronnie2796

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This thread is so interesting,..I kinda just want to raise my hand and say "What about me?!"
So,...I guess that's kind of what I'm doing, though I'm a bit shy about it.

I can write,..decently well.
I can sing,....decently well.
I can work with people decently well.

I don't know :/ I'm just kinda good at a few things, not really great at anything,..Hmm.
 

ronnie2796

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Aaandd, I just realized that I confused this thread with another. I'm embarrassed and would have just deleted it, but I'm not seeing that I can do that....This is so awkward. Ignore me,...
 

shrimp

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I suppose I would say my calling is to be a Stay at home wife and mother as well as be a daughter of the Most High God. If God wants more of me, I will do it. For now, this is sufficient. :)
 
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You know, I totally forgot about that story. Thanks for reminding me of it and using it in such a manner. It had a good Biblical analogy(proper word?) for listening for God's calling. I have a lot of older and experienced people in my life, but so far they haven't contributed to helping me understand such things. I am not really lost on the matter, so to speak, just a bit discouraged. So many possible life stories for me but none of them feel like the 'right' one. Hopefully that makes sense. Anywho, I'm still praying about it.


Sorry for such late responses. I was on vacation and only had my iPad for internet access. Typing on that thing isn't fun for me...:rolleyes: So I waited until I had computer access to reply
Maybe it's just about waiting. You're still in your teens, so you have plenty of time. Some people learn their calling later in life, but if you want to know yours earlier, God can show you. He may show you gradually, but I think you're just supposed to have fun, sit and learn, and keep working on your relationship with God at this time in your life. Even if you don't know His calling for you, if you keep living your life and walking forward, He will walk you into it.
 

Apostol2013

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Yes i know what God Has called me to do.
An Evangelist by calling. Full on evangelist? Do not know yet, but He has confirmed that HE will use me to win MANY souls for Him..
I myself know the calling of an evangelist , for when i was first called ,,I was given that job and eventually God revealed my true calling in wich i am unworthy but yet chosen by God for the work . My little advice is seek a life of fasting and prayer stay in the word , 1 . Have you fasted before ? If so what is the longest you've fasted for . 2 . Wait for God to answer do not rush the work as spirotial maturity is very necessary . To go out pre mature is a hot mess . This could even be years of training you may even become a hermit like Elijah in the dessert . Any plans of marriage is secondary , it is God first noore filthy talk lucre no leaven at all for . It is nesesary to do tgis that your giftings may flow a little more intense that you preach more than kust word.Mm
 
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Sure, I know my calling, we all do, The Bible tells us to "preach the gospel". Whereever you are, whatever you do, whoever you are with.
 
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Sure, I know my calling, we all do, The Bible tells us to "preach the gospel". Whereever you are, whatever you do, whoever you are with.
Did you ever wonder what it means to "preach the Gospel" as the Bible shows it to us? I think we are called to grow in the Grace of God more than to 'preach the Gospel'. Growing in His Grace means there's no pressure on us: we do only what we can and not what we can't. So, if we don't know 'how to preach the Gospel' to one person or another, then He isn't calling us to that at the time but to grow in the Grace of God. In Jesus' life, we see that He 'preached the Gospel of the Kingdom' saying, "Repent, for the Kingdom of God is near. If the Kingdom isn't near in our lives, then how can we 'preach the Gospel'? We can rest in just growing day to day. Jesus sent some people to 'preach the Gospel' with signs following, and Paul sheds some light on 'preaching the Gospel': "I will not dare to speak of any of those things which Christ has not accomplished through me, in word and deed, to make the Gentiles obedient— in mighty signs and wonders, by the power of the Spirit of God, so that from Jerusalem and round about to Illyricum I have fully preached the gospel of Christ. And so I have made it my aim to preach the gospel, not where Christ was named, lest I should build on another man’s foundation" (Rom. 15:18-20). 'Preaching the Gospel' implies not just talking but acting, and not just acting but having God act through you. It doesn't necessarily mean signs and wonders must be present, but it does mean that the Lord will be present in a way that those you 'preach' to will be aware. He is the Gospel that we are to preach, because He is the Gospel who saves. Now, we can 'share the Gospel', if we want to be nicer about thins, but even then, that still really means to share Christ Himself. In '10, I met a guy who didn't even preach anything. A friend of mine from the mid 90s introduced me to him. My friend's dog had come from a pound, and its original owners had abused it; it was scared of people, especially males. My friend warned this other guy that it would take the dog a long time to come anywhere around him, but he said not to worry. Well, he wasn't in the house long when the Lord's presence settled in the room. Such a deep and abiding peace settled there with us that at least I myself felt like I was drunk. The Lord was present, and the retreating dog climbed into this guy's lap in seconds. The Lord was so present that we all, along with my friend's two young daughters, didn't quite know what to do. Only the dog wasn't totally surprised as it, a bog dog, cuddled in this guy's lap. The Lord was there. This is what it really means to 'preach the Gospel', because the Gospel is to be 'preached' (the Lord shown) to all Creation and not just to people who need to be 'saved':

"For the earnest expectation of the creation eagerly waits for the revealing of the sons of God.[SUP] [/SUP]For the creation was subjected to futility, not willingly, but because of Him who subjected it in hope;[SUP] [/SUP]because the creation itself also will be delivered from the bondage of corruption into the glorious liberty of the children of God. For we know that the whole creation groans and labors with birth pangs together until now.[SUP] [/SUP]Not only that, but we also who have the firstfruits of the Spirit, even we ourselves groan within ourselves, eagerly waiting for the adoption, the redemption of our body" (Rom. 8:19-23).
 

Apostol2013

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Yes indeed no one can deny God's peace His prescence His Love
 

JoyfulFleur

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Maybe it's just about waiting. You're still in your teens, so you have plenty of time. Some people learn their calling later in life, but if you want to know yours earlier, God can show you. He may show you gradually, but I think you're just supposed to have fun, sit and learn, and keep working on your relationship with God at this time in your life. Even if you don't know His calling for you, if you keep living your life and walking forward, He will walk you into it.
True words right there.

I think you're right about waiting. That seems to be where I am right now. Just waiting where God leads me. Also, the thought just came to me, He may feel it's not the appropriate time for me to find out. It could be something that I am not ready for or prepared enough for it yet. I really enjoyed reading what you've had to say on this. Thanks for the help! :)
 
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True words right there.

I think you're right about waiting. That seems to be where I am right now. Just waiting where God leads me. Also, the thought just came to me, He may feel it's not the appropriate time for me to find out. It could be something that I am not ready for or prepared enough for it yet. I really enjoyed reading what you've had to say on this. Thanks for the help! :)
You're welcome. And you're right about timing. You're not alone; there are lots of people who don't quite know what they're supposed to be doing or what their calling is. God is big on timing as I'm finding out in my life right now.