What's her problem? That's a good question! Part of her problem is she thinks it's her right to defend others, AND herself in here, but it's not right for
you to do so. As she stated she struggles with gossip which is a sign of those who are idle. Probably a lot of gossip going on in PM and them telling one another to attack others "for what they said". Misery loves company, and they do come in packs on here.
Her other problem is she likes to meddle in other peoples business when they are having within a thread a personal disagreement. She has to jump in and meddle, which is Biblically a fools task.
Here's the thing - busybody meddlers don't have anything going on, so they begin to meddle in others matters. That is the problem with Depleted. Life is "online" for some people.
Here is what Paul said about the idle:
2 Thessalonians 3:5ff May the Lord direct your hearts into God’s love and Christ’s perseverance. In the name of the Lord Jesus Christ, we command you, brothers and sisters, to keep away from every believer who is idle and disruptive and does not live according to the teaching you received from us. For you yourselves know how you ought to follow our example. We were not idle when we were with you,
The not living according to the teaching is accomplished when a person meddles. Maybe she will learn to MHOB and stay out of peoples personal business and obey Christ.
Bro, you've done nothing wrong as you know. Just keep sharing truth, and when one of the hypocrites come crying, lying, falsely accusing and attacking you for it, just thank God, and, of course, expose their hypocrisy.