Disobeying God's Commandment ?

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carpetmanswife

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iraasuup said:
You have all made some very interesting and valid points, thankyou. I guess the thing I'm struggling with is that my husband and I have differing opinions. I want nothing more than to have a baby... he couldn't think of anything worse. He's not scared, he's just selfish..and it's not a matter of just waiting, it's a matter of NEVER. He has made it very clear to me that he NEVER wants children... EVER. He never told me this before we got married, and so now, I don't know what to do, as I need to submit to him and the decisions he makes for us... but I feel he's being incredibly selfish. I guess all I can do is pray.

However, you have given me some interesting points to think about, so thankyou again.
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my heart truly goes out to you, when we were trying to have a child and it didnt happenn for yrs i was devastated,i understand fully the desire you have to love a child. i think thats a God given gift *the desire im speaking of* that most women have . yes pray ,hopefullly God will help your husband to recieve the understanding of your feelings and grant your wishes . my sister in law wanted kids, brother in law certainly didnt! but they did have a child and he loves her so much . my prayer for you is the same :)
 
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eric51

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Procreation, from the Christian viewpoint, is the end, the objective, of marriage. The Church which is on the side of LIFE, believes that every marriage be ordered to the procreation of human life. Eph 3:14; Matt 23:9. Spouses are called to give life; it is the proper mission of marriage to transmit human life. In so doing they are cooperating with God's love, God the Creator.
 
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You're welcome Iraa and I will continue to keep you in prayer on the matter. God bless you.
 
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