So...you believe that God did not have a hand in you losing everything but that it was through your own fault, by giving place to the world, the flesh and the devil, that you lost everything? And then a rich man who doesn't know God - he has kept his temporal wealth even though he gives place to the world, the flesh and the devil. So why did he do the same thing as you and yet he didn't lose his wealth as you did?
What I mean is: you and the man who has not lost his wealth did the same exact thing. So why is the result not the same for him?
What I believe is what the Bible says about sin. Sin shakes out the same in everyone's life eventually... sin brings death in all it's many forms. Some quicker than others. Romans 6:23 [SUP]23 [/SUP]For the wages which sin pays is death, but the [bountiful] free gift of God is eternal life through (in union with) Jesus Christ our Lord.
You nor I or anyone can't possibly say one person does exactly the same as another person. Each human is an individual unique to that persons footprint on planet earth. My choices are specific to my whole life...how I was born., raised., taught and those are just a tiny few reasons why we never compare ourselves to others.
But what strikes me about your question Stunned is you are quick to see God based on what is going on in other people's lives. This I've observed many people do as well as many Christians. I did it for years without a second thought and have to guard against that kind of thinking every day. Comparing our selves with ourselves and by ourselves and others is not wise.
2 Cor. 10:12
[SUP]12 [/SUP]Not that we [have the audacity to] venture to class or [even to] compare ourselves with some who exalt
and furnish testimonials for themselves! However, when they measure themselves with themselves and compare themselves with one another, they are without understanding
and behave unwisely.
We are called instead as believers to look to Jesus and the Bible through the revealing of the truth by the Holy Spirit to be our compass. And see things through the Spirit's leading not our own understanding. 1 Cor.2:9-
[SUP]9 [/SUP]But, on the contrary, as the Scripture says, What eye has not seen and ear has not heard and has not entered into the heart of man, [all that] God has prepared (made and keeps ready) for those who love Him [[SUP][
a][/SUP]who hold Him in affectionate reverence, promptly obeying Him and gratefully recognizing the benefits He has bestowed].
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10 [/SUP]Yet to us God has unveiled
and revealed them by
and through His Spirit, for the [Holy] Spirit searches diligently, exploring
and examining everything, even sounding the profound and bottomless things of God [the [SUP][
b][/SUP]divine counsels and things hidden and beyond man’s scrutiny].
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11 [/SUP]For what person perceives (knows and understands) what passes through a man’s thoughts except the man’s own spirit within him? Just so no one discerns (comes to know and comprehend) the thoughts of God except the Spirit of God.
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12 [/SUP]Now we have not received the spirit [that belongs to] the world, but the [Holy] Spirit Who is from God, [given to us] that we might realize
and comprehend
and appreciate the gifts [of divine favor and blessing so freely and lavishly] bestowed on us by God.
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13 [/SUP]And we are setting these truths forth in words not taught by human wisdom but taught by the [Holy] Spirit, combining
and interpreting spiritual truths with spiritual language [to those who possess the Holy Spirit].
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14 [/SUP]But the natural, nonspiritual man does not accept
or welcome
or admit into his heart the gifts
and teachings
and revelations of the Spirit of God, for they are folly (meaningless nonsense) to him; and he is incapable of knowing them [of progressively recognizing, understanding, and becoming better acquainted with them] because they are spiritually discerned
and estimated
and appreciated.
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15 [/SUP]But the spiritual man tries all things [he [SUP][
c][/SUP]examines, investigates, inquires into, questions, and discerns all things], yet is himself to be put on trial and judged by no one [he can read the meaning of everything, but no one can properly discern
or appraise
or get an insight into him].
Stunned., I hope you read those verses and don't just skim over them because you disagree with me. It's the Bible that instructs us and it applies to believers telling us how to interpret life here. We have to do it by that One on one relationship with the Holy Spirit.
Comparing spiritual things with spiritual things and that can only be done by the Holy Spirit working in us. The Holy Spirit will not force His infilling each day. The Bible says to "be ye being filled". It's our choice.
We can go our whole lives in wrong thinking if we choose. I could have avoided many of the pitfalls I experienced in my life had I given place to the Spirit's leading. Instead I allowed my flesh by way of wrong understanding of who God is and how God works with His people to direct me.
But we Christians know that there is a way that seems right to a man but the way thereof are the ways of death. Prov.14:12 Even a Christian can put themselves outside of God's will because they gave place to the thinking of the world... the flesh and the devil. Those things will for sure ruin our lives. It wasn't God's fault or intention for our lives.
The Spirit is apposed to the flesh and the flesh to the Spirit. They are contrary one to another. Gal.5:16-17
[SUP]16 [/SUP]But I say, walk
and live [habitually] in the [Holy] Spirit [responsive to
and controlled
and guided by the Spirit]; then you will certainly not gratify the cravings
and desires of the flesh (of human nature without God).
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17 [/SUP]For the desires of the flesh are opposed to the [Holy] Spirit, and the [desires of the] Spirit are opposed to the flesh (godless human nature); for these are antagonistic to each other [continually withstanding and in conflict with each other], so that you are not free
but are prevented from doing what you desire to do.
We each have to make that individual choice every single day of our lives how we are going to be lead... by our flesh or by the Spirit. We have a choice. No one can make that choice for us and we can't make these choices by looking at other people. If we look at what is going on in other people's lives for our direction., we will fall in a pit. The world-flesh-devil are the 3 things that come against us and lead us away from the truth.