Only unconditional love is singular.
All other divisions and ideas of love (based on different conditions) is dualistic.
And one of the problems is that because many do not get to know unconditional love, they start defining conditional love as unconditional love.
For example, what is unconditional love?
One might say, the love a mother has for her child. No it's conditional, based on the child being hers.
When you feed the hungry, or give money to the poor. No it's conditional (based on their condition). However it IS a bridge to unconditional love.
There are many things which are a bridge to unconditional love. But to experience it, you have to suspend disbelief in the conditions of existence. The rich man is as poor, as the poor man is rich. Your enemy is as much your friend, as your friend is your enemy.
Jesus spoke about singular thought, and how to get to that point.
Love your enemy > Therefore there is no enemy? Yes
Love your neighbours as you love yourself > Therefore suspend your judgement of who deserves love? Yes
God makes the sun rise, and the rain fall on both good and bad people > Therefore suspend your judgement of who is better than the next? Yes
Only by being like this child > So growing into an adult, with an adult mind is part of the problem? Yes
There are many examples, but a dualistic mind often takes things literally, and can not comprehend no matter how intellectual or learned, what is being said. Unfortunately those of high status, have always said what everything means, but for all the general population of Christianity knows, they have been duped into dualistic perspectives of God, and in that, may well never experience God's Love, truly.
How do you know what it is like to be in love, if you have never been in love? In this case, in God's love.
In fact the thoughts of human love, being in love; when you first experience it, even if you never met the person, one 'touches upon' unconditional love. All your conditions have gone out the window, although this is a 'mind-constructed' unconditional love. A bit like if I took some drugs and fell in love with a tree. The mind is fully capable of synthesizing an emotional experience. And yet the mind is the locked door to unconditional love, to God, to the God that is Love, the Source, the Father of; unless you are able to open it. Many claim to be beyond the door, but their door is as heavily locked and barred up as many others.
You can tell this, because they have an inability to stop trying to be right, and instead choose to be loving.
Why does this happen? Because in the world of conditional love, every one of us has experienced pain through love. Love somehow becomes the enemy subconsciously (fear becomes attached to love). It's a bit like, knowing that you have to eat to survive, and yet being afraid of food. Irrational. The world is an irrational place.
And out of this enemy of love, people become intellects. Intellects of God. Reading the Bible inside out, thinking they know it all, and yet maybe they know nothing at all. Love is the lowest on the list of their priorities.
If God came down and said, "I will burn all your churches to the ground, all your religious books, but I will leave you fully capable of loving every human being, but at the price of your intellect. Or I will leave you your churches, and your religious books, and your intellect, but I will take away your ability to love every human being." Which choice would you make? And indeed, what choice do many make in this world, when they need 'something to belong to' to make them feel like they exist or that they are important.
Do people seek God selfishly for themselves and their own will, friendship with people who love them, who are alike to them? Or do they seek God to do his will, which often brings much sacrifice of the latter?
Aren't there different types of love though?
So not even love is singular.