One of the trial vids, I am not sure if it was the dad's victim impact statement, or simply a reporting of trial procedures and testimony (I did watch three or four of the relative videos on youtube), said at one point that the mom left the house to go for a walk while her boyfriend went upstairs. It was believed she thought she would not be held responsible if she were not present while her boyfriend violated that helpless little girl... and as I said, I am very sorry this happened. I cannot imagine the pain of losing one so young, beautiful, and innocent, in such a heinous manner.
That is true, and if such a person as those had any conscience at all, I would wonder how they could live with themselves having committed such atrocities, or stood idly by and allowed them to happen. I lost three children, but under completely different circumstances. Before I came to belief I went through periods where I was in a state of mind where I just wanted to put a bullet through it to stop all the deprecatory thinking, the interminable self condemnations, and negative self assessments, feeling an utter failure in life and unworthy of being loved by anyone. I discovered that God loves unconditionally, despite all our faults and failings. There is no sin He does not forgive but that of blasphemy against the Holy Spirit. Scripture also says, there is no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus. If our names are written in the Lamb's book of life, we are judged by our works on His behalf, not on what we did in the flesh, or before we repented and came to belief. I understand how difficult it is to forgive those who have harmed those we hold dear. I am truly sorry such horror and devastation was visited upon that little girl and all who held her sweet life in their heart of hearts.