Ok I'll admit I didn't read every post so I don't know if this has been covered, the ones I had read didn't pick up on it. there is fornification and then there is adultery. fornification is sex outside or before marriage, adultery is sex after marriage or during marriage. in order for it to be adultery then you or the woman you were looking at, or both would have to be married, so if you were married and lusted after another woman, this is wrong or you lusted after someone elses wife, which is also wrong.