You're right! Words are cheap and actions prove a man!
But I'll bet that Lightskin hasn't committed adultery yet since we started this conversation today (of course I could be wrong)
So to say he is the son who didn't do his father's command can't be proved yet!
If Lightskin goes home and quits committing adultery he's the son who got up and obeyed his father's words, right!?
I am betting on Lightskin that he will be a man and quit sinning! As I said in another place, this sort of thing will take guts, effort, and discipline: it isn't automatic! What about it Lightskin? I am with you brother and praying that God gives you a mighty victory today!