It's ok to continue to remember your sins, as long as you know they were forgiven. Don't dwell on them tho". I think we feel more guilty about past sins after you are saved, but rest assured they are forgiven. No I don't think that redemption/being saved/having salvation is even partly about remembering our sins. We are supposed to have joy & love one another. I agree,no it's not wrong to cry for our sins. It's natural.