Post...a parallel to help you understand my position.
I have a friend, whose an Alcoholic.
My friend didn't know she was an Alcoholic, until she tried to quit drinking alcohol.
She wants to quit drinking alcohol, but she can not do, what she wants to do.
Do you know, Why?
It's because she is a slave of alcohol.
That's basically what an alcoholic is,....a slave to alcohol.
Do you think any less of my friend, whose an alcoholic?
No...because I know she is a slave of Alcohol, and she can not do, what she wants to do.
And in order for her to be released from this addiction, the addiction must die.
How will she know when this has happens?
When she can no longer be tempted by alcohol.
I also have a friend, whose was a sinner.
My friend didn't know he was a sinner, until he tried to quit sinning,....to Repent of sin.
(Romans 7:7).... Nay, I would not have known sin, but through the law;
My friend wanted to stop sinning, but he found out, he could not stop.
(Romans 7:19)...For the good that I would do, I do not; but the evil which I would not do, that I do.
Do you know, what he discovered?
(Romans 7:20)....Now if I do that which I do not want to do, it is no more I that do it, but sin that dwelleth in me.I find then a law that, when I would do good, evil is present with me.
He was a slave, just like my friend who is an alcoholic. Only he....was a slave of sin.
That's basically what a sinner is, a slave of sin.
Do you think, I thought any less of my friend?
No...Because I know it's sin living in him, which causes him to sin.
In order for him to be released from the Law, he must die to sin.
How will he know he has died to sin?
(1 John 3:9-10)
Whosoever is born of God does not commit sin; for His seed remaineth in him, and he cannot sin, because he is born of God. By this the children of God are manifest....
My friend beat his addiction and so can you. You can read about my friend, the sinner...in (Romans 7).