The problem is always the same, When it comes down to it none will actually address the texts. They just jump here and there and everywhere and if you try to address the texts they use they continue to jump or rather give their own interpretation. But none just acknowledge what the text says.
I think this is the key point as well. It is only through the Word of God that we can find Jesus and know the truth because he is the Word. You leave the Word of God to follow the teachings of man you are leaving Jesus. It is only by continuing in God's Word that we can know the truth of what God wants us to do.......
"Then said Jesus to those Jews which believed on him,
If ye continue in my word, then are ye my disciples indeed; and ye shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free." (John 8:31-32) This promise is conditional on continuing in God's Word
and further..........
"Seek ye the LORD while he may be found, call ye upon him while he is near: Let the wicked forsake his way, and the unrighteous man his thoughts: and let him return unto the LORD, and he will have mercy upon him; and to our God, for he will abundantly pardon." (Isa 55:6-7)
If you do the above God promises.........
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And ye shall seek me, and find me, when ye shall search for me with all your heart." (Jer 29:13)
"But the Comforter, which is the Holy Ghost, whom the Father will send in my name, he shall teach you all things, and bring all things to your remembrance, whatsoever I have said unto you." (John 14:26)
"Howbeit when he, the Spirit of truth, is come, he will guide you into all truth: for he shall not speak of himself; but whatsoever he shall hear, that shall he speak: and he will shew you things to come." (John 16:13)
"If any man will do his will, he shall know of the doctrine, whether it be of God, or whether I speak of myself." (John 7:17)
If people want to find Jesus and His truth they need to ask him for it and seek him and find him and know him through His Word. We must always point people there so they can find Jesus for themselves.
God bless you