You may find this hard to believe, but I agree with most of what you said, which I emboldened.
At that same time, if I understand you correctly, you are saying that if one refuses to forgive, then He never was a child of God, and therefore never had salvation. I'm guessing this goes against your denomination's doctrine.
I am not inclined to believe such a thing. I believe one can lose their salvation, after they have obtained it.
I also believe one does not have to repent of their dead or evil works in order for them to receive salvation by faith in Jesus.
Luke 13:4-6
King James Version (KJV)
[SUP]4 [/SUP]Or those eighteen, upon whom the tower in Siloam fell, and slew them, think ye that they were sinners above all men that dwelt in Jerusalem?
[SUP]5 [/SUP]I tell you, Nay: but, except ye repent, ye shall all likewise perish.
I'm not trying to be mean here, but you said, 'And since faith is the only basis of all salvation', then that leaves unforgiveness or holding a grudge against someone, out of the equation, doesn't it?
Luke 17:3
King James Version
Take heed to yourselves: If thy brother trespass against thee, rebuke him; and if he repent, forgive him Aren't we forgiven of every sin when we believe and confess Jesus as lord?
I am convinced that we don't need to repent before we are saved, but after. (actually we do,and it is shall be saved)
- Romans 2:4
- New International Version
Or do you show contempt for the riches of his kindness, forbearance and patience, not realizing that God’s kindness is intended to lead you to repentance?
- King James Version
Or despisest thou the riches of his goodness and forbearance and longsuffering; not knowing that the goodness of God leadeth thee to repentance?
2Co 4:13 We having the same
spirit of faith, according as it is written,
I believed, and therefore have I spoken; we also believe, and therefore speak;
Rom 10:8 But what saith it? The word is nigh thee, even in thy mouth, and in thy heart: that is,
the word of faith, which we preach;
Rom 10:9 That if
thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead,
thou shalt be saved.
Rom 10:10 For with the heart man believeth unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation.
( what the word is saying here is Jesus must be your Master and you must believe God raised him from the dead )
1Jn 1:9 If
we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.
I believe, the main purpose of forgiving others, or repenting of all our sins, is that God might forgive us of our sins that we committed after salvation, that the curse of the law of those sins we committed, might be removed from us through the blood of Jesus, thereby restoring us to fellowship with God, so we might, by faith, get healed, delivered, set free from whatever, and/or get our prayers answered, and that we might receive and walk in the blessings of Abraham and in the fullness of the blood covenant that Jesus has made available to us through the work on the cross.
All those things you stated are commands from Christ and the purpose is to obey so we can walk like him, talk like him, be in him and he in us, so when God looks at us he will see Christ and not consume us.
I believe there is a sin that leads not only to physical death, but eternal damnation as well. To be perfectly honest, I don't know what that is, but if it were anything, I would think unforgiveness would be it.
Mark 3:29
New International Version
but whoever blasphemes against the Holy Spirit will never be forgiven; they are guilty of an eternal sin.”
Mark 3:28-30
As for faith, if I were to put it in its simplest form, I would say that it is speaking and acting on what you believe. Speaking alone is also acting on that belief, as quoted above.
For example, let's say a person has an illness, and that person prays for God to heal them, then goes and takes some medication or goes to the doctor's office to possibly alleviate the symptoms.
What was the person's faith in? God and His word, or in the doctor and the medication?
A person will speak and act on what they really believe in their heart.
Mat 12:34 O generation of vipers, how can ye, being evil, speak good things? for
out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh.
Mat 12:35 A good man
out of the good treasure of the heart bringeth forth good things: and an evil man
out of the evil treasure bringeth forth evil things.
Forgiveness or the lack thereof, I believe, is an act of the person's will.
Your thoughts ma'am?
Matt 18
[SUP]23 [/SUP]Therefore is the kingdom of heaven likened unto a certain king, which would take account of his servants.
[SUP]24 [/SUP]And when he had begun to reckon, one was brought unto him, which owed him ten thousand talents.
[SUP]25 [/SUP]But forasmuch as he had not to pay, his lord commanded him to be sold, and his wife, and children, and all that he had, and payment to be made.
[SUP]26 [/SUP]The servant therefore fell down, and worshipped him, saying, Lord, have patience with me, and I will pay thee all.
[SUP]27 [/SUP]Then the lord of that servant was moved with compassion, and loosed him, and forgave him the debt.
[SUP]28 [/SUP]But the same servant went out, and found one of his fellowservants, which owed him an hundred pence: and he laid hands on him, and took him by the throat, saying, Pay me that thou owest.
[SUP]29 [/SUP]And his fellowservant fell down at his feet, and besought him, saying, Have patience with me, and I will pay thee all.
[SUP]30 [/SUP]And he would not: but went and cast him into prison, till he should pay the debt.
[SUP]31 [/SUP]So when his fellowservants saw what was done, they were very sorry, and came and told unto their lord all that was done.
[SUP]32 [/SUP]Then his lord, after that he had called him, said unto him, O thou wicked servant, I forgave thee all that debt, because thou desiredst me:
[SUP]33 [/SUP]Shouldest not thou also have had compassion on thy fellowservant, even as I had pity on thee?
[SUP]34 [/SUP]And his lord was wroth, and delivered him to the tormentors, till he should pay all that was due unto him.
[SUP]35 [/SUP]So likewise shall my heavenly Father do also unto you, if ye from your hearts forgive not every one his brother their trespasses.