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p_rehbein

p_rehbein

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Happy New Year to all my CC friends............. :)

Psalms 20:5) We will rejoice in thy salvation, and in the name of our God we will set up our banners: the LORD fulfil all thy petitions
 
JesusLives

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JosephsDreams said:
Okay, here goes.
I am new here. This is my first post.
I have had questions about the balance between love and self preservation in this fallen world for a while.
I have also been wondering about what to do in certain situations when I just don't get an answer in prayer,
and a specific answer is not always clearly apparent within the commandments and lesson's from the bible.
So here are my thoughts and questions...

Is it still love when we prayer against our enemies are that are looking to destroy us?
I know I can not gossip, but can I talk to someone about the hurts and disappointments that I have experienced from
others?
How can I say I love when I usually think bad thoughts about someone that has been bitterly opposed to me?
When do I become a silent sacrifice, never defending myself, because I have not heard from God about how to proceed?

Is it wise to not do anything when I am being trampled on, not hearing from God about what to do when people are
attacking me for years and years?
I don't often hear from God about how to conduct myself in a particular situation, and on how to proceed if I am being treated
badly. What do I do then?
Is it okay as a Christian to ever raise my voice if someone is treating me badly? I usually don't get excited when I am in a tense potential confrontational situation with someone in my family, but when I do, afterward, I almost always regret my anger, (I don't curse or threaten, but I can be critical of a persons behavior toward me, and sometimes respond with a non curse word name calling if someone does that to me). But if I don't respond, I almost always regret that I did not say anything. Otherwise I feel like they will just keep doing it again and again. Recently, I was in a confrontation with another family member, and I raised my voice in front of other family members that were present, in this case I was the one who raised my voice first, it wasn't just in response to being yelled at, and I feel like I had just blown my testimony in front of some of my family and friends. I felt like a fool afterwards, and in situations like this, I feel unsatisfied either either way; if I respond excitedly, or do not respond at all. Is this Holy Spirit trying to tell me something, or is it just me? I didn't sleep well on those following nights, and the day after, I lost my appetite and felt down. I feel like I have to start all over again in my Christian walk regarding an appropriate response, and on how to make every thing I do pint to God's kingdom. Even though I am infinitely more loving and forgiving, patient and understanding, I have come such a long way, I still ultimately fail to the standards I want to be according to what I think God wants from me.
I feel like my family will just think I am a hypocrite, or who knows what else. I don't think I have always been a good example of a Christian in their eyes, in fact I know I have not. It really bothers me that I have hampered my chances to be a living example of Christ in me. I have hurt my family members chance of salvation. I don't want that on my head.
I am one of only three genuine Christians that I am aware of in a extended family of maybe 75 people aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces, nephews, in laws, etc., that I am close to. They already think I use Christianity as a crutch. To make matters worse, most of them have led "good" lives. Many of them have been good family people. They contribute to the community. Many of them are forgiving and gentle. Almost all of them work hard. Some of them have made millions. Many have various educational degrees (I have one too) . BUT THEY DON'T HAVE CHRIST ! And sometimes in life, I struggle more then they do, and I have Christ in my life. And I am sometimes angry or frustrated that they are willing to forego God. They are so comfortable in their apostasy. I wish I could shake them. But here I am maybe making matters worse. Sometimes I wish I just crawl into a hole.
Sometimes I wish God would just get me out of this fallen sin filled world. Someties I wish there wasn't so much work to yet be done.

Joseph
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Joseph welcome to Speak Your Mind thread....I just got up a little while ago and this is way too much to process so early in the AM before coffee....but we serve cookies here and I do want to try to get back to you after I feel fully awake... In the mean time enjoy...

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JesusLives

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blue_ladybug said:
Happy New Year people! Thanks for the rep comment, MM. :) Now I have some bad news for y'all.. :(


Vermont finally has snow.. :( :mad:
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I am so jealous....yes, I said it....But you have summer all of 2015 then get back to me.... I long for snow and the cold crisp air that goes with it.....sweltering in Clearwater....They say we are suppose to be in the 60's tomorrow!!!! Yay!!!!
 
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Tintin

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Happy New Year, brothers and sisters! I'm out of here.
 
JesusLives

JesusLives

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Tintin said:
Happy New Year, brothers and sisters! I'm out of here.
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NO you can't go... besides you already broke protocol and posted on the first so you may as well stay now..... We'll forgive you.
 
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p_rehbein said:
Bedtime already? Musta been a late night Down Under........... :)
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Oh P_R....you knew TinTin was talking about sleeping?
My bad! Lol I thought he meant leaving CC
Sorry if I misunderstood brother Tin!
 
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Tintin

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JesusLives said:
NO you can't go... besides you already broke protocol and posted on the first so you may as well stay now..... We'll forgive you.
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No need to worry, Darlene. I'm just going to bed. It's almost 2am here. Oops. Goodnight from me, good day to you. :)
 
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Tintin

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skylove7 said:
Oh P_R....you knew TinTin was talking about sleeping?
My bad! Lol I thought he meant leaving CC
Sorry if I misunderstood brother Tin!
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No need to apologise, dear sister. I may have confused you with my new avatar. God bless you!
 
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LittleBit1987

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Happy New Year Everyone!!!!

I am the only one up in my household.... lol Funny... and I went to bed close to 2am this morning and I couldn't stay asleep the whole night....

But big plans are in store for 2016... No way will I let the enemy steal my life away from me... This lil'bit is determined to keep on the right path and shine the light and love of God to everyone I come around! YEA!!!! :D
 
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Siela01

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LittleBit1987 said:
Happy New Year Everyone!!!!

I am the only one up in my household.... lol Funny... and I went to bed close to 2am this morning and I couldn't stay asleep the whole night....

But big plans are in store for 2016... No way will I let the enemy steal my life away from me... This lil'bit is determined to keep on the right path and shine the light and love of God to everyone I come around! YEA!!!! :D
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Happy new year little bit!!!:3 and for all ur family especially new member in ur family ^^ and hope all the best for u.. YEA!! :3
 
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cmarieh

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It's hard to believe it's been one year today that I took back God's promises for my life and decided to come back to CC and no matter how I have been hurt the blessings of new friendships I will always remember and cherish for the rest of my life. 2016 will be an awesome year
 
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