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oldhermit

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I remember our first date... the firs time he told me he "loved me"...

when he first asked me to be his girlfriend.... when he proposed.... when we got married, when we first moved into our new home as 'husband and wife'....

Shall I go on? ;)
Yea, but do you remember what you were wearing?
 
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VioletReigns

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Soooooo........... do you kind folks want the GOOD news... or the BAD news first? :rolleyes:

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roxxyroller

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Good morning everyone! Another hazy rainy day ... dull and drab ... ugh. Thank you Jesus for waking us all up and letting us join together today! Hope all is well with everyone!!

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FridaysChild

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I remember our first date... the firs time he told me he "loved me"...

when he first asked me to be his girlfriend.... when he proposed.... when we got married, when we first moved into our new home as 'husband and wife'....

Shall I go on? ;)
Those are treasures! :D
 
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LittleBit1987

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LOL. I knew it. That is the difference between the man and the woman.
Sure is!!

He couldn't tell you what he was wearing or what day those happened... except for when he proposed and when we got married... they both happened on 11-3.. so we were engaged for a year and got married 365 days later ;)
 
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VioletReigns

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The bad news is... last night it dawned on me that there are more human spammers in our forum than we first thought. They are not spam BOTS, but PEOPLE. So I did some research online very late last night.

Turns out, forum spamming is an extremely effective technique spammers use to get us to post many times on a thread so it will link to external sites.
This serves two goals:
1. Will increase search engine visibility in highly competitive advertising domains (such as weight loss, pharmaceuticals, gambling, pornography, real estate or loans, etc.)
2. Will generate more traffic for these commercial websites

In other words, the more we respond to their threads, the more money they make.

AND THAT'S ONLY HALF THE BAD NEWS.

The other half is that we have more spammers than we first thought. One resource says they come in and post a friendly newcomer's introduction and then go into some situation where they ask you to explain something (such as "What Bible is the most reliable?"" or "What should I do in this situation with my new boyfriend?" or "How should I pray for my unsaved spouse?" etc. etc)

The source I read said they all do the same thing: They will thank you profusely for responding and they will ask you for further information so they can get as many people to respond as possible. The more pages, the more money they make. So... I looked through some of the BDF posts to see if I could spot one or two. There were many that fit the description of spammer. :(

Remember we were wondering why people come in and ask a question or present a serious problem then never return? They don't have to return as long as they have people responding to the thread, their mission is accomplished.
 
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LittleBit1987

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The bad news is... last night it dawned on me that there are more human spammers in our forum than we first thought. They are not spam BOTS, but PEOPLE. So I did some research online very late last night.

Turns out, forum spamming is an extremely effective technique spammers use to get us to post many times on a thread so it will link to external sites.
This serves two goals:
1. Will increase search engine visibility in highly competitive advertising domains (such as weight loss, pharmaceuticals, gambling, pornography, real estate or loans, etc.)
2. Will generate more traffic for these commercial websites

In other words, the more we respond to their threads, the more money they make.

AND THAT'S ONLY HALF THE BAD NEWS.

The other half is that we have more spammers than we first thought. One resource says they come in and post a friendly newcomer's introduction and then go into some situation where they ask you to explain something (such as "What Bible is the most reliable"" or "What should I do in this situation with my new boyfriend?" or "How should I pray for my unsaved spouse?" etc. etc)

The source I read said they all do the same thing: They will thank you profusely for responding and they will ask you for further information so they can get as many people to respond as possible. The more pages, the more money they make. So... I looked through some of the BDF posts to see if I could spot one or two. There were many that fit the description of spammer. :(

Dang..... that really sucks... :(
 

oldhermit

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Sure is!!

He couldn't tell you what he was wearing or what day those happened... except for when he proposed and when we got married... they both happened on 11-3.. so we were engaged for a year and got married 365 days later ;)
The reason the man does not tend to remember these peripheral things is not because the moment is not important enough for him to recall, it is because when for example a man is proposing to the woman he loves, he is not looking at your dress, he is not listening to the song on the radio, he could not care less what is going on around him. The only thing he is looking at is YOU. So when he recalls these special moments years down the road he is not thinking about your wardrobe, he thinking about you. That is what he remembers.
 
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FridaysChild

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The bad news is... last night it dawned on me that there are more human spammers in our forum than we first thought. They are not spam BOTS, but PEOPLE. So I did some research online very late last night.

Turns out, forum spamming is an extremely effective technique spammers use to get us to post many times on a thread so it will link to external sites.
This serves two goals:
1. Will increase search engine visibility in highly competitive advertising domains (such as weight loss, pharmaceuticals, gambling, pornography, real estate or loans, etc.)
2. Will generate more traffic for these commercial websites

In other words, the more we respond to their threads, the more money they make.

AND THAT'S ONLY HALF THE BAD NEWS.

The other half is that we have more spammers than we first thought. One resource says they come in and post a friendly newcomer's introduction and then go into some situation where they ask you to explain something (such as "What Bible is the most reliable?"" or "What should I do in this situation with my new boyfriend?" or "How should I pray for my unsaved spouse?" etc. etc)

The source I read said they all do the same thing: They will thank you profusely for responding and they will ask you for further information so they can get as many people to respond as possible. The more pages, the more money they make. So... I looked through some of the BDF posts to see if I could spot one or two. There were many that fit the description of spammer. :(

Remember we were wondering why people come in and ask a question or present a serious problem then never return? They don't have to return as long as they have people responding to the thread, their mission is accomplished.
Exactly!! I saw the same thing. And yesterday when I saw one, I skipped it even though one of brothers had posted to it. I didn't think it my place to mention it.

Although, I saw one this morning with a today's date of membership and the 4 posts they made were random and worded strangely. They had USA as their flag so I knew most Americans don't talk like that. So I reported it as a possible bot, or whatever they are.
 
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skylove7

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Today's Bad Idea

Just when you think people can't get any dumber....


This will cleanse the gene pool a little.


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I know, I saw it right away too. It's obvious.


No safety glasses or hearing protection!
OH MY!...Gandalf...Whaaaaaaat? Let a girl have her coffee first I just woke up! Sheeeeesh!