Hmmm... I would say he has to have a kind heart, compassion for others, respectful of women, loves his mother, honorable to his father, is not sexist or a brute, possibly a musician because then you can play worship music together, has to have a silly sense of humor, MUST luv penguins or at least be entertained by them (ROFL), since you ain't crazy about cooking, perhaps he could cook.... and of course, he loves Jesus with all his heart.
Is that asking too much?