stepping away from the pentacostal movement

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zone

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I tried bringing things up to them and I got two replies, first I was told I should probably be on medication because my accusations were crazy, then I was told, even when we're wrong, we're right, after that I was removed from all of my ministries (prayer, choir, usher, & home bible study)
hmmm....so did you have leaders who claimed to be hearing directly from God and going against them was going against God?

what things were bothering you?

zone

(i attended such churches for a time as well, so i can directly relate. just want to see if your experiences matched mine, and the testimony of others who have left that movement).
 

wilc

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Keep on praying for find a "temple" cause Paul said: hebrew 10:25

Not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together, as the manner of some is; but exhorting one another..

But, be sure that WE ARE THE CHURCH of the God, dwelling place of Holy Spirit. So
>> pray, praise, read the bible to learn from Him our savior and Lord Jesus Christ.
Be blessed
 
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GreenNnice

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I tried bringing things up to them and I got two replies, first I was told I should probably be on medication because my accusations were crazy, then I was told, even when we're wrong, we're right, after that I was removed from all of my ministries (prayer, choir, usher, & home bible study)
Keep on praying for find a "temple" cause Paul said: hebrew 10:25

Not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together, as the manner of some is; but exhorting one another..

But, be sure that WE ARE THE CHURCH of the God, dwelling place of Holy Spirit. So
>> pray, praise, read the bible to learn from Him our savior and Lord Jesus Christ.
Be blessed
No one should judge you for a misunderstanding of Scripture, thisiscarey, I think, that the problem with a lot of churches is that they do not get into The Word enough and realize that we are ALL the SAME FOUNDATION building.

That foundation is Christ Jesus ! Our Lord, who taught us on Earth how to do things, 'The Way,' and, He is our way Home.
So, not sure why your beliefs would cause someone to say you need medication, but, you should just follow His leading in your life and delight yourself in Him, who is the Spirit of Truth, who LIVES and BREATHES, and, IS inside you, helping you all along your way in life. FAITH ! This is key. EVERY thing you do, everything, bring it to God's attention that YOU are going to follow Him through. Everything! Follow-through :)

God bless you, milady, in your way of praying, fasting (fasting can be for a very short time :) ) , and, just following His leading in your life. The Lord leads :) "...you follow Me." John 21:22.

I haven't personally talked to you for awhile but be sure to discuss these things with your husband, these feelings, and , together go to God for understanding, as , He is going to reveal all truth to you for He is the Spirit of Truth. :)

Get into The Word now ! And, don't let your 'medication' questions go unanswered, FIND someone who can help you (and your husband) through this time. :)
 
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I tried bringing things up to them and I got two replies, first I was told I should probably be on medication because my accusations were crazy, then I was told, even when we're wrong, we're right, after that I was removed from all of my ministries (prayer, choir, usher, & home bible study)
You will find this in any church.
It's called hierarchy.
Some of the most stiff necked are the so-called 'rational' cessationists.
See if they will let you sing in the choir if you question that doctrine - (that the gifts have ended).
In this respect,-(toeing the company line), they are all the same.
 
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kenisyes

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Every group has some things that you see the same way, and every group has some things you will not see the same way. You need to find out what God has given you. Then you will belong a little to each, and totally to none (except to Jesus).

There's plenty of ministry needed in the Body of Christ that is not church-dependent. That's where many people get called, and due to how we process the church culture, they usually do not recognize the call as possible, and so they get confused. Mid-30's is a good age to start feeling that conflict.
 
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J-Kay

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Hi Carey: I certainly can relate to your feelings about Charismatic
Churches. I got saved in 1968 and began attending Methodist Church.
I was there probably 2 yrs. or more. Was invited to a Ladies Bible Study
that was not affiliated with the Meth.Church, and I loved the precious
elderly lady who taught it. She too, was from Methodist Church, but she
had such love for Jesus Christ and could teach us how to love Him and
learn the Word. Okay, so it moved more into the deeper realm than the
Meth. Church was teaching .... Just formal Sunday Service... I wanted
more of Jesus.

A small Charismatic Church I heard about was just what I was needing.
It broke my Pastors heart when I left the Methodist Church, and I realize
now he was concerned about me and what I was getting into. The Church
was on fire and I tell you what ... the spirit moved greatly and the Church
grew to the point we had to build a larger one. It seemed we were really
the Church for the area. Note.. THE CHURCH ?... If you didn't attend ours
I felt ...well, gosh I was so 'spiritual' and you know, I was above others
spiritually. Well, this went on after let's see 3 splits ... and to shorten the
story, I have to say you are so right !!! I was hearing we are not to confess
we are ill. Bad confession. We really did worship the Lord and had the gifts
of the Spirit in operation. God was there, but something was wrong. For
one thing, the Pastor.. he brought in TheoTherapy and prophets to give
prophecies to those he chose to receive word from the big wigs out in I
think Washington State. This went on and I got to the point I could not
sit under this man and began staying in nursery. I was fed up with the way
things were run. God has NO favorites.
We did eventually get a new Pastor again and he was a wonderful man.
He did teach properly, and worship was good. Still something was not
right. At least for me. I became very depressed. One night after being
called to altar by a speaker ... for those who had thoughts of suicide, to
come forward and we would be healed. I went, but it was a flop for me.
I walked out the door, the enemy said, just walk on down over that hill,
walk into the river. I can't swim, he knew I would drown. I forced my
body to turn the corner and walk to my car and drive home. Nothing
was same for me after that. I quit Church for 8 years.

I learned a lot during that period. I fell away and had to find my way back
to the Lord. While studying the Word, I saw it differently. The Word said
:When you walk through the water.. When you pass through the fire..
If any among you are sick.... All the things we were taught should not be,
the Word said it could happen and God was the way out. So, I say that
to say I know now I am so leary of any FAITH TEACHING CHURCHES that
I shy away from them. I have many around me where I live and just have
not found what I feel right for me. I did try one not to long ago and it was
faith and prophecy and man it went down in no time. So sad... Pastor was
woman, w/ jezebel spirit. I mean the type that took complete control and
what few attended she got rid of, left ... and it is not a Church anymore.
I also say this to tell you I am sensitive to the Spirit of God and I do hear
from Him. But I don't believe in giving prophecies just to put on a show.
If He gives me something for someone I will say so, otherwise, I was not
going to be forced to give a Word...I was not called to give. That is another
issue.
So, my husband and I do our Church here at home. TV Pastors we trust.
No showy, no begging for money, just true teaching Word of God. I feel
in my spirit this week, and just 2 days ago, I told my husband, I feel like
God is showing me a Pastor.. ( not his face ) just a feeling I am going to be
going to a Church. We will see. But honestly I do love the move of the
Holy Spirit, please don't get me wrong. I just will not go into the loud showy
things. Also we must be careful where the Pastor is getting his sermons
from. There are some false teachers out there.
I pray you find what God wants. Maybe He will take us out of this world
before we have found a Church.

God bless you .. in Jesus Name.... J-Kay
 

zone

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You will find this in any church.
It's called hierarchy.
Some of the most stiff necked are the so-called 'rational' cessationists.
See if they will let you sing in the choir if you question that doctrine - (that the gifts have ended).
In this respect,-(toeing the company line), they are all the same.
:)
my denomination is basically cessationist (as opposed to the pentecostal varieties).

we don't have a choir.
the entire congregation sings.

lovely gifted singers - (i just make a joyful noise:eek:)
 
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I meant to say that they are the same when it comes to any form of ministering in their church.
It is quite natural.
Hence, the reason for so many denominations.
Denominationalism isn't particular to Christianity either.
 
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richie_2uk

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When I got saved It was through a pentacostal church, I became deeply involved, but after 7 years I started noticing practices and attitudes that didn't match up with what the Bible teaches, I myself became very judgemental, self righteous, legalistic, and religious, so I left, but now I feel lost, what do you continue to believe and what do you toss out? I'm trying to find a good church, but I've just about given up on that. Can someone help me?
First you really shouldn't blame the Pentecostal movement. If the leaders and the pastor was not living to the belief's, then maybe you should of confronted them and express your feelings and your concerns. Maybe they don't realise that they are doing it. you got to remember the church you went to, is only a building of worship and fellowship. you are the temple. and your journey with Jesus is obviously going up a level for you, to discern these things that are effecting you now.
But leaving a church without expressing your concerns, may cause you more of effect, as your heart was there, your passion and help and care was there.

Maybe try have a word with the pastor, not to point the finger. just explain how you feel. pray over it. and have a good chat and share what you are seeing differently. God bless
 
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enoch1nine

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what do you continue to believe and what do you toss out?
Just like Jesus said, you gotta be "born again".
You gotta start from scratch. Cut yourself off with just the words of Jesus to start with.
One thing bible publishers have done that rocks, is putting them in red letters.
Regard everyone else's religious opinion and translation as food from a raven.
Eat, but don't heed unsavory cackling.

And become like little children. Do your "former works".
Little children forgive quickly and do charitable works in the heart, no matter what the details are.
 
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richie_2uk

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Just like Jesus said, you gotta be "born again".
You gotta start from scratch. Cut yourself off with just the words of Jesus to start with.
One thing bible publishers have done that rocks, is putting them in red letters.
Regard everyone else's religious opinion and translation as food from a raven.
Eat, but don't heed unsavory cackling.


And become like little children. Do your "former works".
Little children forgive quickly and do charitable works in the heart, no matter what the details are.
What Enoch1nine? What are you on about? this don't help the OP. it would be better if you just said that you pray for the person, instead of derailing the subject. Did you read the OP? or someone else's reply? Sorry no offence dude.
 
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jimmydiggs

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When I got saved It was through a pentacostal church, I became deeply involved, but after 7 years I started noticing practices and attitudes that didn't match up with what the Bible teaches, I myself became very judgemental, self righteous, legalistic, and religious, so I left, but now I feel lost, what do you continue to believe and what do you toss out? I'm trying to find a good church, but I've just about given up on that. Can someone help me?
What doctrines are you looking for?

I'm with Zone and Tribesman in generally recommending Reformed, Reformed Baptist, Lutheran, and some Gospel Coalition churches.
 
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Elizabeth619

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carey,

be careful in receiving recommendations for a certain denomination. If you noticed in my post, I didn't recommend mine for that very reason. I want God to show you the church He wants you to go to, not the organization I would favor.
I agree with you on this completely. We could all recommend a congregation. I could tell her to go to a Church of Christ because I'm a member of one, but how would that be right? Everyone needs To study and figure out whats "right" and not depend on others to tell us.

If I looked hard enough I could find error with the reformed churches. Why is that? Because I'd be looking for error.
 
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ed2

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hi eddie.
could you be specific about the things you experienced and saw that were contrary to
scripture and extra-biblical?
it's rare but helpful to have people come out of the Movement testify directly to what they saw was wrong, and what was right:)
God Bless
zone.
Sure, I will do my best. But to be balanced, I will also tell what I thought was right. I think that is only fair.

I think the first thing I recognized was that leaders would get a so called personal revelation, and then claim it as authoratative. When I challenged these revelations with scripture, I would be told things like, "Oh, your problem is with God and not us, because He said it. Go question God about it." When I would reply with something like "No, you said it. I cannot find in scripture where God said that", I was pretty much told I wasn't saved, because if I was, I would understand. Let me clarify, they wouldn't come out and say I wasn't saved. They would say I needed the baptism of the Holy Spirit to understand. I view the baptism of the HS and being born again as the same thing.

Another concern I had was this so called "slain" in the Spirit. I probably don't need to go any further with that one. Kind of the same thing happened when I asked for it's biblical support. I was even told, on several occassions, that "we sometimes do things that are not in the Bible." That one blew my mind. I even had folks try and push me down.

Then there is the abuse and mis-use of tongues. I will say, I am not a cessationist. I think there is a place for BIBLICAL tongues today. From what I can tell in scripture, there was no abolishment. Man, I would like for the scriptures to say they have definitely ceased, and I could probably stretch a few scriptures to make them say that. But I try my very best to just let the scriptures speak for themselves. However, the tongues that are practiced in Pentecostal churches are not Biblical tongues, and I say that with 100% confidence. Even if they were, biblical guidelines are rarely followed concerning the gift of tongues. Even though I don't see sound scriptural basis for God abolishing this gift, or any other, I often times ask is this gift really necessary in a church where everyone speaks the same language. Don't get me wrong, I see a vital use for this supernatural gift. But if everyone speaks the same language, just say what you gotta say in that language so everyone understands.

There are other things also that I may mention at a later time. But to stay balanced, I will talk about the good that is there.

They preach a pretty sound gospel. Faith in Christ is key. All the aboved mentioned things do not save or evidence you are saved. It is faith in Christ alone, apart from any works, that saves. The evidence of that faith is repentance. I say "pretty" sound because even though Christ is center, they still teach that WE must come to Christ. I believe Christ comes to us, we don't go to Him. But the point is, they keep Christ at the center of it all.

Another thing I like is the worship style. I can find nothing biblically wrong with publicly or corporately showing our affections to God, and I have looked. Of course, the worship has to come from the heart and not some desire to be seen as super-spiritual. There also has to be some order to it. People's definition of order may vary. If someone is so overwhelmed with joy, I have no problem with them raising their hands, shouting out loud "glory be to God", running down the aisle, I'm for all of that as long as God is in it. Of course, if someone wants to sit there quietly and worship, I am for that too.

Anyway, running a bit long so gonna shut it down, for now. Hope this helps.

Grace to you all
Eddie
 

jb

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I am not going to give you any advice, but just to recount something:

I know a certain person, who for 16 years, because of certain severe circumstances, was not able to get to Church, this in turn threw them completely into the arms of Jesus, so that they had to rely completely upon Him. This person to keep their relationship alive with the Lord Jesus (for the Christian life is about a love relationship with the Lord Jesus, God the Father and God the Holy Spirit), continued their prayer life and daily study of the Scriptures and got really close to Him. They did manage to have periodic fellowship with other Christians who came to their house or who phoned them up.

This inability to get to a Church, they say, was extremely beneficial, because they basically had to sink or swim, and they swam, neither did they have to listen to any dry boring sermons from a pastor/minister with no anointing, but had to study for themselves the Scriptures. This experience made them spiritually strong.

There are MANY different Churches and none is perfect, however, there will be one local to you, where you will feel loved, welcome and at home, so, I would suggest that you visit each Church in you locality and find the one that you feel 'comfortable' in and where you feel God would want you to attend...

Yahweh Shalom
 
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BeanieD

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Hi Carey, there really is no perfect church as far as I can see. I think we just need to find one that follows the word of God closely. There are differences in all of them, and when we search out the truth in the Bible, then we can accept the small errors. Just like people have differences in their own beliefs, and are convicted of our beliefs, so churches are the same. The only true source we have is God and the enlightening of the Holy Spirit.
 
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carey

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The best way I can answer some of your questions is to share what happened to me at this church, I was openly mocked, humiliated, and torn down. At first I didn't realize what was happening because it was so subtle. I am a writer and when I made known my desire to write a book, I was laughed at "who, you! You can't possibly be serious! " I also have always had a heart for the mission field, but every opportunity that presented itself, my "leaders" shot me down, everything I did was a sin, I couldn't do anything right, even the way I walk is sin, I was told I walk too seductive and the devil is using me to bring down men of God, I have an autoimmune disease and I was told I'm sick because there is secret sin in my heart, everyone that leaves the church and later wants to come back gets shunned, if you talk about leaving, your told that you were never truly saved, and watch out or God might strike you down for leaving His church, there is big talk about commitment, but it's more about being committed to the church rather than Jesus, there's even a worship song praising the church, other churches are openly mocked, they call them "the church of the chosen frozen" if you go to your leaders with any concerns your told "your not spiritually mature, if you feel the need to question our authority "because your leaders have ultimate authority over your life. At the end of some sermons, the pastor will tell the congregation "everyone that can speak in tongues, speak them now " I have always had a problem with this, because speaking in tongues should be led by the holy spirit, not by man. This is just the tip of what goes on.
 

shawntc

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carey and ed2,

I agree with pretty much everything you said. About a year ago I switched from the Assemblies of God to the Lutheran Church - Missouri Synod. Many doctrines and behaviors in the AoG, I found, were things I ended up disagreeing with.

It surprises me that nobody in the Pentecostal movement has stepped up to aggressively defend their doctrines. I imagine they will show up before too long. Then I foresee this thread becoming another debate thread.
 

ChosenbyHim

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When I got saved It was through a pentacostal church, I became deeply involved, but after 7 years I started noticing practices and attitudes that didn't match up with what the Bible teaches, I myself became very judgemental, self righteous, legalistic, and religious, so I left, but now I feel lost, what do you continue to believe and what do you toss out? I'm trying to find a good church, but I've just about given up on that. Can someone help me?

Carey, well at least your judging things by the Scriptures. And that is how it is supposed to be done. We are to test everything by the Scriptures.

I used to go to a pentecostal/charismatic church that also went under the "nondenominational" category. And I had gone there for well over 10 years. And looking back on it now, I can see how much discernment I had been lacking at that time. That church I had gone to was compromising on a lot of issues, and I can't remember ever hearing a sermon on Hell and judgment being preached there. Well so after my eyes had been opened, I went ahead and left that church.

What I suggest for you Carey, is to look for a good Bible believing Church. I recommend checking out a Baptist church. And the smaller the better. I would highly advise against going to a modern church, as a lot of the modern churches that have more than a thousand members have compromised on a lot of issues. Since most likely the pastor of a big modern church building is more concerned about paying the bills then he is about preaching the truth.

Another thing to is that a lot of the modern churches are 501c3 corporations. And what that means is that they are yoked up to the state. So if that pentecostal church that you used to go to was a 501c3, that might have been one of the problems that you could have been seeing.

Now Carey if you cannot find a good Bible believing church, a church that sings the old hymns and where the pastor preaches from the King James Bible. If you cannot find that kind of a church then you may want to check out sermonaudio.com

And check out these following preachers:

Bryan Denlinger

David Peacock

Richard Sowell

Gregory A. Miller

Lester Roloff


That way, if you can't find a good Bible believing church, then you can still get fed on a daily basis spiritually. The men I just listed are Bible believing preachers. They believe the Book. And you will never hear them correcting the Bible. Because they hold the word of God in a very high regard.

Another thing to is that make sure you take time to read and study the word of God daily and be in prayer. And go on youtube and listen to the Good Old Hymns. Good Spiritual Music that will build up your spirit and edify your spirit. Well I hope this helped Carey.

The sad truth is that there are not too many good churches out there anymore. Now they are out there, but it will take some time, it will take some searching to find a really good church where the pastor of that church believes the Book that he is preaching from.

If you have any questions, you can have your husband to inbox me since you are married. And I can give him some additional information of some other good Bible believing ministries that are out there and that you can know have integrity. Just like the Bible believing preachers which I listed already in this thread.