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Misty9578

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Misty, the easiest way is to click on their user name, which will take you to their profile, and there's an option on the left that says "add to ignore list".

But if he is being rude or inappropriate, please report him to the moderators. Here's a link to one of the mods since you just joined and might not know how to find one:
Christian Chat Rooms & Forums - View Profile: NewEagle

Oh, and welcome to the site! :D
Thank u so much! I'm not sure how this guy even found me. I'm assuming from this post because I've posted only a couple times elsewhere. Will putting him on 'ignore' keep him from messaging me? He's newer then me so I'd hate to report him right off but he is completely out of place with what he's messaging to me. I'd just like to break the contact. I really like this site.
 
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Misty9578

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I strongly believe in the assembling in the house of God. I wouldn't trade my church family for any other. Amazing people. They are my crutch and I am theirs and we all lean on God for total support. We need that and I do believe that until someone has a church family they will not understand its importance.
 

PopClick

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Thank u so much! I'm not sure how this guy even found me. I'm assuming from this post because I've posted only a couple times elsewhere. Will putting him on 'ignore' keep him from messaging me? He's newer then me so I'd hate to report him right off but he is completely out of place with what he's messaging to me. I'd just like to break the contact. I really like this site.
As far as I know, you won't be able to receive any messages from him while you have him on ignore. :)
 
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Misty9578

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Thanks! Ill try that then. Can he still se my posts and stuff?
 

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Thank u so much! I'm not sure how this guy even found me. I'm assuming from this post because I've posted only a couple times elsewhere. Will putting him on 'ignore' keep him from messaging me? He's newer then me so I'd hate to report him right off but he is completely out of place with what he's messaging to me. I'd just like to break the contact. I really like this site.
I'm pretty sure you can't see a person in the threads if you put one on ignore. I'm sure it would be the same for private messaging, so you should be good.
 
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Misty9578

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Thanks so much! Appreciated.
 
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atwhatcost

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I do appreciate everyone's insight!!! I'm not sure how we got all the way to the details of my ex and my life, lol, but it I strongly believe in God. I did not ask how I could change him. I mentioned it but right after said only God could do that. I have my faith in God. To Jason, the bible speaks of the building and assembling into Gods house. Speaks of the positions of the church. To put a watchman over the church (pastor). I believe we need that watchman. Sure we can learn and study on our own but an anointed preacher will give us What God has for us. I stand by the fact that church is vital to our growth. Too 'atwhatcost' we can agree to disagree because I firmly believe that we should be careful what are children are taking in. My children are my life. They are second only to God. You completely missed my comparison on the school. I was just saying if u know someone is teaching ur child wrong then would u let them be taught wrong? I don't. But that's me. I believe a child should be brought up right. I believe they should be brought up with the bible and God. I don't rely on culture. I rely on what the bible says. It's scripture. Raise them right and they'll not depart from it. That's a promise from God. If I raise them with anything other then God and they depart then that's my fault but if I hold on to God and keep them straight then with Gods grace, they'll not stray.
There is no need to agree to disagree yet. You were on 15th Street and I was on 16th Street, but I thought we were on the same street. lol

What do I do when children are being taught anything -- right or wrong? I don't have kids, but I am/was the godmother to my younger brother and Mom died, so I really had to take on some responsibilities of motherhood unexpectedly. And I'm writing a novel for children, so I am fully aware that what I say has to be careful so they don't get the wrong things out of it.

So, how do I handle that? I trust kids to think for themselves with a bit of guidance. When my brother asked me a morality question, I first told him what I thought, compared it to what he was being taught, and then gave him the books to figure out the answers in his own way. I never wanted him to be stuck thinking he must simply shut up and agree. I wanted him to think and learn how to figure it out himself. (I was a kid myself -- 16 years old when Mom died -- so I wasn't as good as I wish I had been. But he seems to be doing all right now, especially since he now has a three year old to do the same thing to. It worked a bit too well. In most things he neither agrees with me or Dad now. lol)

As for my novel? The entire point of the series (assuming Book One sells enough to make it into the full series) is to get kids to realize they are capable of not being hornswaggled. I'm fully aware mass media and their schools are teaching them a particular point of view, but if they realize they don't have to buy everything being spoon-fed to them, they can face reality -- something often not being taught at home or in schools.

I'm fully aware of the junk kids are being fed today. I'm also aware God has ways to get through anyway. Both my parents taught me to have full faith in the Catholic Church and to be a good conservative/liberal. (As in, other than religious beliefs they didn't agree on anything else, and yes, they did separate too. The only reason they didn't divorce was Mom died before the divorce could go through.) I, on the other hand, was born again at 15, and have had a life as different from them as can be. God works past what people think he ought to do.

Same street now?
 
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Our country was not founded on biblical principles....the founding of the colonies was based upon religious freedom, but the founding of the government was not....let me ask you a question....

John said....God is spirit and they that worship him must worship him in spirit and in truth.....

Our constitutional amendment states....Worship God as you please......

Which one is biblical?
 
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purgedconscience

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Our country was not founded on biblical principles....the founding of the colonies was based upon religious freedom, but the founding of the government was not....let me ask you a question....

John said....God is spirit and they that worship him must worship him in spirit and in truth.....

Our constitutional amendment states....Worship God as you please......

Which one is biblical?
Plus, many of our founding fathers were Deists.
 
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atwhatcost

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Thanks! Yes ur right, it does take time. My biggest hindrance in my walk was patience. Oh I lacked patience. Could not handle waiting on anything. If God wasn't prompt I tried to figure it out myself. And closes minded people drove me crazy! And my pastor knew this. He told me constantly, Misty u need patience. So I started praying for patience. Now he warned me to be careful what u pray for and oh isn't that the truth!!! Ill have to share my testimony sometime. Far too long to post here. But God def gave me patience. Thought gotta remember, I had far less patience then the least patient person, I believe, lol, so I figure I'm right up there with the average patient person now. Haha!
Oh no! You prayed for patience? Bad news. God said, "Yes!" Worse news. He never changes his mind. :eek:

Now you're in for a life long lesson of waiting on God, because he does tend to give what's needed exactly when it's needed, and not the 10 days earlier, when I was sure that's when I needed it.

43 years later, and the best I can say is well, at least he's getting somewhere with me. I don't think he got the part where I wanted him to magically give me patience immediately... or he did, and decided that's not the best way to get it. I HATE patience! lol
 
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Misty9578

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Oh believe me!! I've had my ups and downs. I about through in the towel in December of last year. I've never wrecked any cars before. In December I wrecked my 1st car, a week later my wallet purse got stolen (right before Christmas, I might add). That there done me in. I cried and was ready to give up but realized I couldn't so I prayed and got tighter with God. Early January the doctors called with results about my son. 2 of his 3 doctors said his liver had progressed to cancer. He also had some lab issues they had to deal with along with things in his heart. (He's doing great now). A couple weeks after that I wrecked the second car that I bought off my ex's family. It was still drivable though but the week after I found out it was stolen so was in another mess. After that my water lines busted and flooded my house. I lost a few of the things that belonged to my son that passed on but was able to save most so was very very thankful! But u kinda get the picture. I agree. Don't pray for patience. I was hitting my knees a lot praying for patience. I had trouble with my ex and with my kids doctors. But all in all everything I've come through I would not change. My pastor always says that God will not bring u to something that he won't bring u through. We just gotta learn to trust in God. Have faith and hold on tight.
 

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I strongly believe in the assembling in the house of God. I wouldn't trade my church family for any other. Amazing people. They are my encouragement and I am theirs and we all lean on God for total support. We need that and I do believe that until someone has a church family they will not understand its importance.
And how does God feel about the church as a building? We know that the body of believers is the church, so it's flexible, but does he want us to just hang out at home in small groups or even watch tv evangelists and make that our church? Or is He actually interested in us coming under one roof? When He talks in scripture about the different roles of the church, and gifts, it would be hard for me to think those functions would best be suited in any other base of operation than the church building as we know it. Again, not to be exclusive in Gods ability to take the church out into the fields as well. For this is His will as well. To go into the world and preach the gospel.

But as I read things like Malachi 3:10- referencing money and tithing to be brought into the "storeroom" or "storage house in the temple", or "The house of treasury"--Basically the church house or church as we currently know it: facility wise. It seems to reason that God approves the church building body of christ, not to limit it, but to approve it, and will it.

Hebrews 10:24-25; goes on to say, "And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another-and all the more as we see the day approaching." So, not only does He approve it, He prefers it, and gives us even a timeline to it..."as we see the day approaching" meaning until He comes to earth again.

So not only is there vivid support of meeting as a group under one roof, but also until He comes back for His saints. God says where two or more are gathered there I am also, a context of prayer, so can I have a church from my basement? Well, I see the different gifts being worked in a better more practical way in the foundation of the facilities we currently house. Can we still have the church or body of believers be flexible in movement and effectiveness, absolutely. It doesn't have to be an either or . But what's God's best for us in all considerations, and purposes? So, for me my church doesn't just have value it is my preference because it is God's preference unless He calls me to a different purpose.

But God calls us all still to go out and make disciples from that base of operations.
 
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atwhatcost

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Oh believe me!! I've had my ups and downs. I about through in the towel in December of last year. I've never wrecked any cars before. In December I wrecked my 1st car, a week later my wallet purse got stolen (right before Christmas, I might add). That there done me in. I cried and was ready to give up but realized I couldn't so I prayed and got tighter with God. Early January the doctors called with results about my son. 2 of his 3 doctors said his liver had progressed to cancer. He also had some lab issues they had to deal with along with things in his heart. (He's doing great now). A couple weeks after that I wrecked the second car that I bought off my ex's family. It was still drivable though but the week after I found out it was stolen so was in another mess. After that my water lines busted and flooded my house. I lost a few of the things that belonged to my son that passed on but was able to save most so was very very thankful! But u kinda get the picture. I agree. Don't pray for patience. I was hitting my knees a lot praying for patience. I had trouble with my ex and with my kids doctors. But all in all everything I've come through I would not change. My pastor always says that God will not bring u to something that he won't bring u through. We just gotta learn to trust in God. Have faith and hold on tight.
You hold a new record for God pushing patience on you. lol

I thought mine was pretty good. We were group home parents once, so needed a van for outings. (We had to buy it too.) We kept our car. And thus my first two accidents. One night I accidentally rammed the car into the van. The following morning I rammed the van into the car. lol