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Oh! We were posting around the same time! I know that you are not trying to trap me. I can plainly see that you, like me, desire so much for it to be fit together. You haven't dealt arrogantly. You are seeking more understanding and I agree it is tough and deep for us. We'll get there. God will help if we walk in love. Hope your kiddies feel better tomorrow and you get some sleep. Talk to you later.
 
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Maybe this is beneficial?

there is a difference between our good and righteousness(Christ). the good man will say," I know the rent is due today and i can kick you out, but just get it to me in a few days. the righteous man kicks you out at 12 AM on the rent due date. He is righteous. And God the Father is righteous, he requires payment and nothing less.

And he gives this perfect righteousness to believers, because Christ PAID our debt. The "good" folks are still renting from the "good" man, that gave them options and are "working" for their rent.
You really don't understand GOD's grace or man's righteousness (justness). Can you fathom why Joseph was righteous?

​Now the birth of Jesus Christ occurred in this way. His mother Mary had been betrothed to Joseph, [but] before they came together, she was found to be pregnant by the Holy Spirit. So Joseph her husband, being righteous and not wanting to disgrace her, intended to divorce her secretly. Matthew 1:18-19

Therefore [in] all [things], whatever you want that people should do to you, thus also you do to them. For this is the law and the prophets. Matthew 7:12

He hath shewed thee, O man, what [is] good; and what doth the LORD require of thee, but to do justly, and to love mercy, and to walk humbly with thy God? Micah 6:8
 

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A person repents of their sin.
Recognises they have sinned
Admits their guilt
Asks God to forgive them
Trusts in the cross for the forgiveness of sins
Follows Jesus in obedience to His word.
Is baptised by the holy spirit as a deposite in their hearts
Is born again into the Kingdom of God and is sanctified through obedience and transformed by the work of God in their lives.

I hope this meets your approval, but then again thankfully I stand before Jesus my Lord, who I love.
This, in my opinion, exemplifies why the Grace plus works people get it so wrong. The list a person does is right but the ORDER in which they are done is destructive.

A person CANNOT repent of their sin UNTIL they receive Jesus as the Lord and Savior and is filled with the Holy Spirit.

If we COULD repent BEFORE accepting Jesus, what do we need Jesus for?


In all world religions a person must be sanctified BEFORE they can be saved.

TRUE Christianity says that you have to be saved FIRST, and THEN by the power of the Holy Spirit you will be sanctified.

IMHO. Every one of these divisive arguments between Grace alone believers and Grace plus works believers boils down to that point.


May the blessed Grace of our sweet, Holy Savior, Jesus Christ, be with you all!
 
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A person CANNOT repent of their sin UNTIL they receive Jesus as the Lord and Savior and is filled with the Holy Spirit.
If we COULD repent BEFORE accepting Jesus, what do we need Jesus for?
This contradicts history. John baptized unto repentance before Christ even appeared.

John did baptize in the wilderness, and preach the baptism of repentance for the remission of sins. And there went out unto him all the land of Judaea, and they of Jerusalem, and were all baptized of him in the river of Jordan, confessing their sins. Mark 1:4-5
 
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Here's the thing. For me anyway. We think we have our construct - our theology I guess you would call it - all pounded into place, but it's all so huge, God's so huge, that we have a struggle with it because I see these endless debates and I carefully read them and I see truth in both sides usually, although sometimes, I just think both sides pick a vs to the exclusion of some other verses but no one ever fits them all together.
And if we keep doing it the same way, it's never going to come together. The definition of insanity, right? Doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.

So it is true that unbelievers can do right or good deeds at times. I gave the vs. When unbelievers do what is right, they prove that Gods laws are written on their hearts and their consciences either approve or disapprove them in what they do.

And yet, that is Gods doing still. They did not write those laws on their hearts and they did not place their conscience within themselves. So the good they are capable of is not from themselves.

Don't know where this puts us, but I DO clearly see some of the next part. Have to go to bed though so I'll be back in the morning after I see what God might say to me over coffee.

I really enjoy talking with you all. We will see some good things from this if we walk in love with each other and listen to the Spirit.
So the next part of what I see. (By the way, sydlit is okay, was just a little down and weary and forgetting for a time, like we all do, that this is all just temporary. And it doesn't help to come in here in our weariness, looking for some help and encouragement and only find everyone devouring each other and tearing down instead of building up of our faith by and for each other.)

There is a way that we are told that we can tell false teachers from good and it is NOT by examining their doctrine with a nit comb and useless argument over words. It is by their fruit. So we are quite able to see one another's fruit. We KNOW what the fruit of one who is walking by the Spirit is and we do none of us, ourselves included, any favors by putting our stamp of approval on someone for what we deem to be correct doctrine if we can plainly see them presenting their teaching with anger, cursing instead of blessing, arrogance, reviling back when reviled, demanding of apologies rather than forgiveness, name calling, belittling, and so on.

The test of a man we want to listen to and talk with (which doesn't mean his understanding is full and that he doesn't see some things through a glass darkly, as we all do, and that he is perfect in knowledge) is not doctrine. It is the fruits that show he has been with our Lord. Patience, humility, a meekness that doesn't revile and accuse, and love above all. He doesn't get angry and belittle when disagreed with. You don't hear these words from his mouth when he is speaking of his brothers and sisters: stupid, fool, liar for Satan, unsaved, headed for hell, and so on. You see joy, not anger and reviling.

So we can see the fruit of having been with our Lord and having learned from the Holy Spirit instead of men.

I am certain we all agree on this. Doctrine is not the test of our brothers and sisters in Christ. Their fruit is. Do we agree with this first part?
 

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This contradicts history. John baptized unto repentance before Christ even appeared.

John did baptize in the wilderness, and preach the baptism of repentance for the remission of sins. And there went out unto him all the land of Judaea, and they of Jerusalem, and were all baptized of him in the river of Jordan, confessing their sins. Mark 1:4-5
Yes brother. I don't see how this contradicts anything I said. Why did they feel the need to get baptized? Do you believe this baptism saved them or did Jesus save them? Here is what John said a little later.

15 Now as the people were in expectation, and all reasoned in their hearts about John, whether he was the Christ or not, 16 John answered, saying to all, “I indeed baptize you with water; but One mightier than I is coming, whose sandal strap I am not worthy to loose. He will baptize you with the Holy Spirit and fire. 17 His winnowing fan is in His hand, and He will thoroughly clean out His threshing floor, and gather the wheat into His barn; but the chaff He will burn with unquenchable fire.”
 

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This contradicts history. John baptized unto repentance before Christ even appeared.

John did baptize in the wilderness, and preach the baptism of repentance for the remission of sins. And there went out unto him all the land of Judaea, and they of Jerusalem, and were all baptized of him in the river of Jordan, confessing their sins. Mark 1:4-5
This point of repentance BEFORE accepting Christ is too vital to leave alone.

Do you brother, believe YOU repented of ALL your sins BEFORE you accepted Jesus?
 
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This, in my opinion, exemplifies why the Grace plus works people get it so wrong. The list a person does is right but the ORDER in which they are done is destructive.

A person CANNOT repent of their sin UNTIL they receive Jesus as the Lord and Savior and is filled with the Holy Spirit.

If we COULD repent BEFORE accepting Jesus, what do we need Jesus for?


In all world religions a person must be sanctified BEFORE they can be saved.

TRUE Christianity says that you have to be saved FIRST, and THEN by the power of the Holy Spirit you will be sanctified.

IMHO. Every one of these divisive arguments between Grace alone believers and Grace plus works believers boils down to that point.


May the blessed Grace of our sweet, Holy Savior, Jesus Christ, be with you all!
You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to PennEd again.
 
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Okay. So our tenacious insistence on correct doctrine above the fruits of the Spirit is not Gods way. In fact, it is useless if we have all knowledge of doctrine and speak even the language of angels, yet don't have love, longsuffering, bearing with each other in patience, and a humility that blesses instead of cursing.

So to believe that this is the test of our brothers does not come from God. And we know that love, not knowledge, covers a multitude of sins. And, in fact, knowledge puffs up with pride toward our brothers but love builds us all up.

So why would we choose knowledge over walking in love? Eve chose knowledge.
 

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Okay. So our tenacious insistence on correct doctrine above the fruits of the Spirit is not Gods way. In fact, it is useless if we have all knowledge of doctrine and speak even the language of angels, yet don't have love, longsuffering, bearing with each other in patience, and a humility that blesses instead of cursing.

So to believe that this is the test of our brothers does not come from God. And we know that love, not knowledge, covers a multitude of sins. And, in fact, knowledge puffs up with pride toward our brothers but love builds us all up.

So why would we choose knowledge over walking in love? Eve chose knowledge.
I agree sister. I just felt this issue of Salvation first, THEN sanctification, NOT the other way around, was at the bottom of so much division, I was somehow, probably naively, hoping exploring that could end it. But You are of course correct. Sorry about that.
 
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I agree sister. I just felt this issue of Salvation first, THEN sanctification, NOT the other way around, was at the bottom of so much division, I was somehow, probably naively, hoping exploring that could end it. But You are of course correct. Sorry about that.
Don'apologize! I hit like on your post. You and gr8grace are so funny and humble. It is true that a blind man needs his blindness cured before he can see. A bit crazy to think he can just choose to see. No blind man ever saw without a doctor and an operation!
 
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So why would we choose knowledge over walking in love? Eve chose knowledge.
If you have knowledge you will understand the importance of love.
Try looking up the word knowledge in the bible and tell us how many times we are told it is something to be desired above rubies and gold.
I am of the opinion that if you would sit down and spend somewhere over 30 minutes a day reading the word that you will gain enough knowledge and understanding to give what you say some credibility.
Start with Genesis 1:1. I promise, God would like it if you did.
 
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Good morning Phil!
Can you give us a verse for this so we understand where you're getting the thought?
Too many to list.
The word is given to us, thru holy men of God by His spirit. That tells us that the doctrine contained therein is of the spirit.
Quite simple. Study to show yourself approved unto God, a workman that needeth not to be ashamed, rightly diving the word of truth.
Study, my dear. It requires effort. It pays off handsomely.
 
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So you think he should be unapologetic about posting false doctrine? You don't see a problem with what you're saying?
No...I agree that we aren't made Holy and then after that, we meet God.
He draws us, heals our blindness in great mercy so that we can repent, and then comes the renewing of our mind and learning to walk in Spirit, or, sanctification.

But this was my experience and what I read seems to match up with it. If you have verses that you think show differently, bring them for us.
 
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If you have knowledge you will understand the importance of love.
Try looking up the word knowledge in the bible and tell us how many times we are told it is something to be desired above rubies and gold.
I am of the opinion that if you would sit down and spend somewhere over 30 minutes a day reading the word that you will gain enough knowledge and understanding to give what you say some credibility.
Start with Genesis 1:1. I promise, God would like it if you did.
Come on Phil, this is what I was talking about. This kind of arrogant belittling is where I'm going to refuse to go. I didn't say that right understanding of God was unimportant. But God detests unequal weights. Mercy and love are of greater weight than perfect knowledge which none of us will have here.

I have read many of your posts in this forum and have learned from them, but until you learn to speak without arrogance I am not going to engage with you. Mercy and love trump our going after perfect knowledge. The Pharisees should make that plain to us.

I want to speak with you and I want to hear what you have to say but belittling certainly won't get us there.
 
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This point of repentance BEFORE accepting Christ is too vital to leave alone.

Do you brother, believe YOU repented of ALL your sins BEFORE you accepted Jesus?
It would probably help the discussion if the distinction was made between repentance and acknowledgement of sin. I didn't know what sin was when I turned to Christ, so I couldn't have acknowledged my sins, but I did repent of every sin.
 
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Hi there, hope you are having a good day
 
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