this feeling i despise. i hate sinning, the thought of sinning, and thoughts of sin. it makes me feel dirty and hell bound.
try to repent and turn from a sin, but actually turning and staying turned is a struggle within itself. we are not going to be perfect, so if we repent from our sins, how do you NOT commit that sin again? that is a very steep hill. i understand the road is very narrow and few find it, but sheesh... tiring and stressful.
Because the church teaches God is a fascist, like mussolini and is out to punish you. So it makes us scared, and we run from Him afraid of Judgement. So every failure is magnified. The more serious we get about wanting to be His, the more we fail and fear.
Stop trying to not sin.
Make your focus learning how to love and the sin issues will take care of themselves.
1 j 4:11 Beloved, if God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. 12 No one has seen God at any time; if we love one another, God abides in us, and His love is perfected in us.13 By this we know that we abide in Him and He in us, because He has given us of His Spirit. 14 We have seen and testify that the Father has sent the Son to be the Savior of the world
15 Whoever confesses that Jesus is the Son of God, God abides in him, and he in God. 16 We have come to know and have believed the love which God has fn
for us. God is love, and the one who abides in love abides in God, and God abides in him. 17 By this, love is perfected with us, so that we may have confidence in the day of judgment; because as He is, so also are we in this world. 18 There is no fear in love; but perfect love casts out fear, because fear fn
involves punishment, and the one who fears is not perfected in love.19 We love, because He first loved us.
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IF WE LOVE, HE abides in us, AND His Love is perfected in us. That changes things in us. That "perfected in us" means it quickens, or cures, or matures. When it's complete, it changes us as I'll get to below. [/FONT]
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If we abide in love, I.E., our lifestyle and our life's motivations are love focused, charity, etc... then He abides in us and us in Him. If you never committed a sin ever, but you didn't have HIM ABIDING IN YOU, do you think you have someone else to get you into heaven? Perhaps you can hire the divine lawyer? According to this verse, minus the love, HE IS NOT THERE. IF He is not there, you aren't going anywhere divine. [/FONT]
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Now, when that Love is made complete, mature, there is no fear of judgement remaining. [/FONT]
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So you and I can continue to try to spin our wheels beating sin, or we can accept His Grace, and that He knew and accounted for those sins before He accepted our prayers. [/FONT][FONT=arial, helvetica, sans serif]
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that Grace, we can go to Him freely, without fear of Judgement and let HIM do the changes in us that HE wants too.
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Paul wrote that the church is to lead us little people to works of service. NOT to the library, but to put our hands to work. Those works ARE AGAPAO/love. And through those works, we are changed, and the change it says happens is we are made (not we make ourselves) as mature, spiritually as Jesus the Christ was on earth.
If you get the love right, you don't worry about the fear, it's not on your mind. You are so busy doing HIS works, and the people you are doing those works for, are giving you love in appreciation in return. What happens is, you become a catalyst. God's love comes from Him, through you (you are His tools of righteousness. it says_) and to the people, even His enemies. THEY then return that love to you. This is why His commandments are not burdensome, they are a joy to fulfill. You get a double dose of love, and your love is perfected through hands on training.