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Eph 4:31 . . Get rid of all bitterness, rage, anger, harsh words, and slander,
as well as all types of malicious behavior.
It wasn't The Lord's wish that Ephesian Christians avoid all bitterness, rage
and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice; no; on
the contrary, he wanted the Ephesians to "get rid" of those behaviors.
"bitterness" is from the koiné word pikria (pik-ree'-ah) which means: acrid,
poisonous, and/or toxic (literally or figuratively)
Christians like that are nothing in the world but deadly reptiles.
"The poison of asps is under their lips" (Rom 3:13b)
"rage" is from the koiné word thumos (thoo-mos') which means: passion (as
if breathing hard). Passion is just the opposite of reason; and as everyone
knows, emotions are incoherent; so it's to be expected an emotional person
is not acting rationally. This is a kind of conduct that Paul says brings sorrow
to God's Spirit.
"anger" is from the koiné word orge (or-gay') which means: desire (as a
reaching forth or excitement of the mind), i.e. (by analogy,) violent passion,
ire, (by implication: punishment)
People overcome by orge typically want some satisfaction; even to the point
of at least your ruin; if not your death.
"harsh words" is from the koiné word krauge (krow-gay') which means:
outcry.
Out-crying is what protestors do; in other words: assertive, in-your-face
confrontational complaints and/or demands.
"slander" is from the koiné word blasphemia (blas-fay-me'-ah) which means:
to vilify. Webster's defines "vilify" as: (1) to lower in estimation or
importance, and (2) to utter slanderous and abusive statements against;
viz: defame, discredit, and/or denigrate.
A statement need not be false in order to qualify as slander; it need only to
be unnecessary; viz: you'll often hear people say: Well, I was only telling the
truth. Were they? No, that's a ruse. In reality, they're insensitive; and they
don't care who gets hurt by their thoughtless remarks.
The Lord notices the words people say, and he also takes note of the spirit in
which they say them.
"But I tell you that men will have to give account on the day of judgment for
every careless word they have spoken." (Matt 12:36)
"malicious behavior" is from the koiné word kakia (kak-ee'-ah) which
means: badness, i.e. (subjectively) depravity, or (actively) malignity, or
(passively) trouble:
Malice usually includes the element of "spite" which Webster's defines as:
petty ill will, or hatred, with the disposition to irritate, annoy, or thwart.
Compare that to the koiné word for "persecute" in the eighth Beatitude
which means, literally: to pursue; viz: to stalk, to hound, to harass.
Webster's defines "thwart" as: (1) to run counter to so as to effectively
oppose or baffle; viz: contravene, and (2) to oppose successfully; viz: to
defeat the hopes or aspirations of; in other words: to deliberately get in
someone's way; block, discourage.
Boy I'll tell you, that Ephesian church was as rough-hewn and crude as the
old logging community of Stump Town (now Portland) out here in the
Oregon of the 1800's. They cussed, they brawled, they bad-mouthed, they
held grudges, they were thieves, they were arrogant, they somehow had the
idea that Jews were below them, they were immodest, conceited, vain, and
impatient, they walked unworthy of their calling, and they were splintered
into cliques.
NOTE: I've heard more than one expositor boast that the Ephesian believers
represent "the church" at its spiritual peak; but I thoroughly disagree. Yes,
there were some outstanding individuals, but by and large that
congregation's spiritual condition was decadent, deplorable, despicable, and
unbecoming.
Paul began his letter to the Ephesians by saying that he made mention of
them in his prayers; asking that the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the
glorious Father, might give them the Spirit of wisdom and revelation; and
also that the eyes of their heart might be enlightened. (Eph 1:17-19)
Well, it seems to me that kind of prayer isn't for advanced Christians, rather,
for Christians just starting out. From thence, Paul went on to explain some
of Christianity's most treasured doctrines, which I assume the Ephesians had
no knowledge of till Paul wrote to them.
I'll grant that the letter to the Ephesians is lofty, but I will not grant that the
Ephesians themselves represent "the church" at its spiritual peak: not from
how Paul described them.
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