Missachu does a rant.

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Missachu

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I can't believe them! I can't believe him! He always tries to justify what they are doing just to keep me from punching them in the face, but I am getting sick and tired of it.

First they expect us to keep up with the house as if we own it. I clean and keep the house spotless and babysat the kids for hours everyday. I do the dishes everyone else REFUSES to do, I cook the best dinners in this house yet they are too jealous to admit or give me credit for and take the abuse when I skip a day. My fiance used to pay all the rent until he put his foot down. They STILL ask for more money for bills they don't want to pay or are too irresponsible to save up for.

They don't respect the fact that I'm Christian and say "Everyone is right to their own opinon. Nobody is ever wrong", "gay rights". They never spank their bratty 5 year old whos way too smart and way too disrespectful, lies and steals and is even sexually inappropriate! (When I first moved in he shoved a stuffed animal in my crotch and once poked me in the butt when I bent down to pick something up) And is very spoiled. I can't go anywhere with him where he doesn't ask for things or pulls stuff off the shelf everywhere. They only ever spank the one year old, only if she annoying them and that's because they don't pay attention to her.

Sabrina tries to defend everything wrong and does nothing but guilt trip and play dirty. Before her dad died she depended on him for everything. And I mean everything. Not one day went by that he wasn't at the house, which was fine because he was a great guy but she looked so darn needy and didn't even realize it or care! When she is corrected or things are bought to her attention she doesn't care. She calls herself a princess and says "Oh, I'm so cool." Lady, you are not cool. She also buys nothing but organic. Her food tastes awful and has the texture of poop.When I make food nothing goes to waste, I also clean up and put leftovers away. Does she? Oh no, of course not. That's not for her. She's worked sooooo haaarrd on that food, why would she put it away? I started buying Arizona iced tea for myself so I could have something special to drink later and she goes to the store to buy 12 for herself :/ Which wouldn't be so bad if she wasn't like that with EVERYTHING. I buy green tea bags, she buys ORGANIC HONEYLEMONWHITEPEARKITCHENSINK tea bags. I buy Nestle chocolate, she buys organic hot chocolate because apparently Trader Joes dosen't have the equivalent. I buy chips....She gets organic flaxseed chips.I buy brownies, she buys chocolate bars for just her and her family. At first I was open to sharing my food willingly, but then her bratty little kid went and ate all my food and drank all my drinks! There's sooo many things that I had to throw away because it went bad that was hers, no one was eating them, and she's just to good to do it herself. Whatever is her reason, we still have a bad infestation of fruit flies because either A) her organic fruit brought them in or B) they didn't/don't clean at all even when I'm visiting my family or I'm sick ...which has happened alot since I moved in. Having food poisoning 5 times in three months isn't fun. AT ALL.
She's afraid of spiders which me and my cat almost got rid of completely when we moved in, but they were more cautious when we first moved in. They didn't make such big messes. Now they just don't care because I'm just too responsible to let my house get that messy. Especially once a month when they decide they want to get drunk.
She didn't have a job at first and went to school online. And she just stayed on the computer all day. ALL DAY! Not even pay attention to her kids. I used to take them outside to the park everyday for a long time until she decided that it was fun and time to spend with her kids,so she started doing that until she found out it wasn't as fun as she thought.
I spent so much time with the kids that when the holidays came around, I instinctively thought I'd be doing the traditions with them. Easter would come around and I'd be doing eggs with the kids and here comes Sabrina trying to take my spot and do it herself. Not knowing how to get them to follow instructions because they don't respect her AT ALL. The 5 year old told me he wishes I was his mom! I don't ever say anything because I don't want to hurt her feelings. And when I do say something she puts it down or just straight up ignores/denys it, but she does feel my anger and dosen't like it. So she tells me that I have an attitude. It's like, Oh really? I have an attitude? Why would you think that?I wonder why.

There's some things I want to say about Matt, her husband, but I'm going to keep this short. Last night they left me alone with the kids, asleep thankfully, told me that they were going to the bar and would be back.Well they brought a girl home, shoo'd me out of the living room and proceeded to have sex...I seriously cannot look at them the same way again. I can't stand it. Not only that but I started looking for places(my fiance didn't know because he's never home) comes home, starts a fight with me because he dosen't want to move and then JUSTIFIES what they did. I understand that this is their house, but you live with other people? Why would you do that? I feel dirty. I can't talk to them, it makes me sick.
 
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MissLee

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It really sounds like you need your own living space. Their values are not in line with yours and it does not seem like they are going to compromise an inch for you. I feel so sorry for their children; especially the little girl. I was in a similar living situation except that the rude couple was my fiancé's parents. I'll pray for you and your housemates that there will be some level of peace and respect in the house.