a question, breastfeeding and intimicy with husband

[savedandIknowit]

Trudes,I feel sorry for your friend that she is going through a divorce with someone who seems to be a weak man and cant see that the other doesnt want a divorce, Satan seems to win these battles with families who dont know how to stand against him. Ive held onto scripture, Luke 6:31 King James Bible
And as ye would that men should do to you, do ye also to them likewise.
I beleive you need to think up more things up on the godly advise to help your friend, its not always one persons fault in a marraige break up but both parties and they need to bring that before God to repent of and repent of not putting God first in a marraige, forget the blame game now and work on ones self instead, blame only tears down. truely she needs to lean totally on God and put her selfish ways that have played a part to destroy her marraige, Im sorry you are feeling angry about your friend, sometimes you need to take a step back emotionally to assess her situation and pray for her, Im sad to hear that her husband has followed strange women,
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[savedandIknowit]

Lord sometimes our mouth run away from us, we dont really think what we say because we have burdens we cant bear on our own, please forgive me and Trudes on our part as I have mouthed off to without thinking, teach us to put our burdens on you and have the words come from you that we need to say, I know i am guilty of this, I pray for Trudes that you will help her guide her friend and others she advises and has your thoughts and the same for me, help me to laugh more and not be a stick in the mud all the time and be so serious but help me also not to laugh at calamity as I know I can, may our lives be glorifies through You, may You anoint our words when You allow christians to share their problems in such an imperfect world, Thankyou for these problems that christians face because it shows the world that christians are not exempt from problems but we have You to walk us and guide us and lean up and learn to love you through the grace of lessons learnt, May we thankyou in all things
In Jesus Name
Amen

 

[answers]

I breastfed my three kids. My first had allergies and I had to nurse her until she was 26 months. I was pregnant with our second child and still nursing the first. I went straight into the second child and nursed him until he was 21 months. I nursed the third until he was 18 months. My husband and I went through lots of ups and downs, but if you make yourself vulnerable and prepared to be shot down and you initiate without insecurity everything may fall into place. I would get creative meaning don't follow the same routine.

I do not think it is necessary to quit nursing until the baby is on cows milk.

Was he against nursing from the beginning? Is he connected to you in all other ways besides sexually?

Best wishes, God bless.

 

[Apples4Oranges]

Keeping under garments on would probably help.

 

[kim12345]

Good advice

I breastfed 4 children and never had a problem through pregnancy or till they were weaned with my husband. I am really suspicious of why he would use this as an excuse. Maybe he has some other issues, medical, personal that he needs to get help with.

Keep praying, because God can do miracles in our marriages.