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Since you are relatively new here, Welcome.
I am engaged to my boyfriend and when we have the money we plan to get married, but his family does not accept me.
This is RED FLAG #1. Do you really need the stress of constant rejection? You should re-think your prospective marriage.
He has two children, one by someone else, and we have a daughter together. We were going to get married before we got pregnant with her and his family did not even acknowledge it, so I tried to end things because I did not want to be married into his family.
This is RED FLAG #2. Do you really want your child to be treated like an outcast, and to feel like one? You should be walking away from this marriage.
When we found out we were pregnant we decided to make it work, which we are now stronger than we were before. I love him dearly, but he never stands up for me and his family is so rude... My fiancé and I are constantly praying about this and he wants to keep giving them chance after chance, I don't think I can do it anymore.
This is RED FLAG #3. If a man will not stand up for his wife, he is neither a man nor a husband. Once, again, you should be walking away from this.
Enough said. The very fact that you have been ignoring these red flags means that subconsciously you want to be victimized. So now that you know that nothing good will come of this marriage, you would be wise to remain a single mother and become a strong Christian instead. Your child deserves to be loved and cared for by his grandparents, but if they are evildoers then you do not need to put yourself and your child in harm's way.
