My female cousin, who should probably go unnamed in this thread, is 20 and is moving into an apartment at college. No big deal, right?
The problem comes when she told me that she's getting an apartment with her male friend, Robby. Now, I've known Robby for a long time, and he and my cousin are very close. I always thought they were dating but they never made it official. Now, all of a sudden, Robby tells me that he is gay and that he and my cousin are living together b/c they're so close.
If you know anything about me, you know I have NO problem with gays at all, my best friend is gay. This isn't a "gay sin" thing. I'm worried b/c somewhere inside of me I feel like they're both lying to me, and that he's not gay at all. Now, two platonic friends of the opposite sex living together isn't really a big deal to me, it happens all the time in college and rarely turns sexual or even romantic. I'm worried b/c of how close they are, and the fact that he is probably not gay even though he's been telling me this. My real concern here is that she has to lie to the whole family and tell us that her "gay friend" and her are moving in together, when I have a bad feeling it's her lover/boyfriend.
What do I do?
The problem comes when she told me that she's getting an apartment with her male friend, Robby. Now, I've known Robby for a long time, and he and my cousin are very close. I always thought they were dating but they never made it official. Now, all of a sudden, Robby tells me that he is gay and that he and my cousin are living together b/c they're so close.
If you know anything about me, you know I have NO problem with gays at all, my best friend is gay. This isn't a "gay sin" thing. I'm worried b/c somewhere inside of me I feel like they're both lying to me, and that he's not gay at all. Now, two platonic friends of the opposite sex living together isn't really a big deal to me, it happens all the time in college and rarely turns sexual or even romantic. I'm worried b/c of how close they are, and the fact that he is probably not gay even though he's been telling me this. My real concern here is that she has to lie to the whole family and tell us that her "gay friend" and her are moving in together, when I have a bad feeling it's her lover/boyfriend.
What do I do?