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The main thing is that we are all innately selfish, but in a marriage covenant between two christians God commands us to be servants to one another and that includes what goes on in the bedroom. Im sure Adam and Eve had sex before the fall, so if there was no sin then yes they would have been perfectly serving each other. What happened was sin came into the world. What we shouldn't do is go into Christian marriage with a list of what WE want and need, and those who do will inevitably be disappointed.
An important thing to note is making sure you're not getting desires and coveting certain methods or whatever from non christian sources, the obvious one being porn. But women I would also say to not read those trashy magazines you see at the grocery store or softcore/hardcore romance novels, that make you beleive that your husband HAS to pursue the G spot or make YOU feel fantastic in bed or else they are bad. It preaches self serving selfishness. Personally I would call it false doctrine. And like you guys I have little patience with Christians or anyone else who think biblical sex shouldn't be talked about - it should! Sex is in the bible, and Paul says that scripture is all God breathed and profitable for learning, teaching and rebuking.
An important thing to note is making sure you're not getting desires and coveting certain methods or whatever from non christian sources, the obvious one being porn. But women I would also say to not read those trashy magazines you see at the grocery store or softcore/hardcore romance novels, that make you beleive that your husband HAS to pursue the G spot or make YOU feel fantastic in bed or else they are bad. It preaches self serving selfishness. Personally I would call it false doctrine. And like you guys I have little patience with Christians or anyone else who think biblical sex shouldn't be talked about - it should! Sex is in the bible, and Paul says that scripture is all God breathed and profitable for learning, teaching and rebuking.
